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Old 02-23-2016, 09:03 AM
 
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Throw her stuff!

Throw her stuff!
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:06 AM
 
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Throw her stuff!

Throw her stuff!
I dont think legally I can do that, but I get your point
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:08 AM
 
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She thinks there's nothing wrong with what she's doing. Maybe she really does send and receive naked pictures of her friends. Who knows. But, would you want to stay with someone who does not see that emotional cheating is wrong or is in that kind of "friendship"? Imagine all the other guy she's been "friends" with and sends naked picture of herself to? Do you want that kind of relationship?
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:09 AM
 
Location: who cares
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Get rid of the cheater, you deserve better than that
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:20 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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wow... I have college friends ,,university friends .. but I did not exchange any naked photos with any one and not anyone texting me either. If any one of them want to contact me there is an email. But all on your hands friend. If you think you both can work it out give a try. If not then better to get out of that relationship. But we outsiders cannot say anything. You know the true situation.
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:31 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She actually said to me something to the effect of "Friends sometimes send each other naked pics". I was flabbergasted, how could she say something like that, something so far off the wall.
Yeah, that's BS.

Can SOME PEOPLE get over it? Sure.

But her reaction so far does not make me think she will help you do that in any way.

Oh well, better to find out NOW.
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:34 AM
 
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recovering from an affair 10+ years into a marriage with kids, where there is a LOT more to lose, is one thing...and hard enough...you never forget










but a FIANCE did this??


no way...run, don't walk...or get married and have kids, so when she does it again, the break will be much more costly and painful
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Paradise
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Yes recovery is possible, but it's a lot of work and you both have to want it. Right now, YOU are in the drivers seat and you will make the decision if you want to make it work.


Check out surviving infidelity . com
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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Run, Forest, run!. She's well past the point of forgiveness. If you hadn't caught her do you think she'd have stopped on her own? I don't.
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Right now, YOU are in the drivers seat and you will make the decision if you want to make it work.
Recovery IS possible, but ...

He can't "make it work" if in three months his fiancee's still sending naked pix to her ex because she thinks "that's what friends do."
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