Am I in the friend zone?!?! (girlfriend, woman, single, gay)

[Bonnie Jean McGee]

You've placed YOURSELF in the friendzone because you are afraid of emotional intimacy with her.


In fact, not even in the friendzone because if so you would be honest with her.

[hopelessloverr]

I'm afraid if I ask about a relationship she will get scared and run off

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by hopelessloverr

I'm afraid if I ask about a relationship she will get scared and run off

You don't ask.

How do you treat her? Do you WANT her to be in a relationship with you??

If she's having sex with you and kissing you and voluntarily hanging around with you, you are dating.

What's the issue???

[Just A Guy]

There are probably about 100 guys who post here who would like to be in that kind of friend zone.

If you want more then tell her that you would like more but only if she wants that also . If she gives you anything but enthusiastic yes, then that means no. Then all you have to do is say fine let's just keep things the way they are. You won't scare her off if you are fine with whatever she tells you and act that way.

[Bonnie Jean McGee]

Originally Posted by hopelessloverr

I'm afraid if I ask about a relationship she will get scared and run off

FEAR.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<faint heart never won fair lady, son.

[hopelessloverr]

you guys have helped thanks

[hawaiiancoconut]

Wth

[ellie]

Most women who sleep with guys want a relationship, too. The few who don't...why would you want to be with a girl like that?

[funymann]

Originally Posted by hopelessloverr

she hasnt said that


i mean we have sex, we kiss and all that

Do you know her name?

[CapsChick]

OP, I don't think you understand the definition of "friend zone."

With all the posts here about being afraid of "scaring someone off" with an honest conversation, it's amazing that anyone ever gets together these days.