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I was talking to a single 34 year old man when he told me he was seeing an older woman. I asked him what sort of things they liked to do and we chatted a bit. Then I asked him how old she was. THIRTY TWO YEARS OLD....THAT'S AN OLDER WOMAN?
Well to him she is. His main interests right now are his work and getting laid. He mainly is with women in their 20s. He said women past 30 are "past their sexual prime" because they start to gain weight, lose skin elasticity and don't generally look as good as younger women. And apparently they don't seem as sexually active to him. I told him maybe women in their 20s don't have the maturity to be more discriminating or mature enough to make better choices about how they spend their time and who they go to bed with. He agreed that might be true and personality-wise women in their 30s are more interesting to talk to but he isn't interested in talking right now. He has no plans to marry anytime soon.
So I thought I would ask the men here. Have you found women in their 30s to be "past their sexual prime"?
Some women don't come into good looks and sex until their thirties (late bloomers). It really depends on the woman.
I have found the least preserved are the ones trying the hardest:
plastic surgery
odd hair color
tattoos
overdone makeup, nails, toes
over the top clothing (too short, loud, etc.)
loud (mouthed) for attention
I know loads of not hot women, Ruth. They all get loads of attention if they're social. Overweight, not pretty, whatever, they all get attention if they go out and socialize.
Sure, ones that stay home might not. Or they may not like the attention they like, but they get a lot.
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Ehh, I go out often. Like 4-5 nights every week. I went out tonight and just got home as a matter of fact. I do not get attention. I am very social, thin and attractive for whatever that is worth.
Well think what you want. The posters that i have sent my picture to will say it's not my looks. Sure I have gotten older now, few grays, but I have always been attractive. I am 5'3" 120 lbs. so far from fat.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Well think what you want. The posters that i have sent my picture to will say it's not my looks. Sure I have gotten older now, few grays, but I have always been attractive. I am 5'3" 120 lbs. so far from fat.
I don't think its your looks and I have no idea what you look like, nor do I care.
And I know loads of overweight, conventionally unattractive, middle aged women that get enough attention it annoys them. It's not your looks, that's for certain. I never thought it was.
Some women don't come into good looks and sex until their thirties (late bloomers). It really depends on the woman.
I have found the least preserved are the ones trying the hardest:
plastic surgery
odd hair color
tattoos
overdone makeup, nails, toes
over the top clothing (too short, loud, etc.)
loud (mouthed) for attention
You left off a few such as:
harmful/unhealthy diet
smoking
alcohol consumption
drug and substance use
sleep starvation
seedy lifestyle
Barflies, chicks that live primarily on the backseat of motorcycles and porn stars don't usually age too well so by 30 years old their washed up in both career and looks.
Hard questions to answer specifically.
Is essentially a balance of genetics and over all health
I can't really give that a defined age limit given those variables just a brackets
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