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Old 02-29-2016, 06:51 AM
 
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(girl I have been talking to and went on a few dates with)

girl: hey
girl: um hello
me: hey how are you
girl: oh look hes alive! busy day today, spent alot of time thinking about you today
me: yea, it was busy here to. aww really thats cute did your meetng go well?
her: yea, seems like the promotion will go through


ok my "aww really thats cute" had to be a horrible awful beta response right?

i have no idea why i sent that and i am down right embarrassed by it. Do you think she noticed?
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Old 02-29-2016, 07:18 AM
 
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Nice first post.
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Old 02-29-2016, 07:26 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Your response doesn't matter as much as her first line.

She obviously was annoyed that she hadn't heard from you already.



Also, don't use that PUA jargon. It's really unflattering.
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Old 02-29-2016, 07:29 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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This beta vs alpha bulls*** is just that; bulls***. Just act normal with women. I would not think anything of your text, call her and find out if she wants another date.
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Old 02-29-2016, 07:36 AM
 
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This beta vs alpha bulls*** is just that; bulls***. Just act normal with women. I would not think anything of your text, call her and find out if she wants another date.

we have one scheduled actually
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Old 02-29-2016, 07:39 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So why did she say sarcastically, "oh look, he's alive"?
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Old 02-29-2016, 07:41 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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we have one scheduled actually
If that is the case, why are you worried about something so trivial?

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So why did she say sarcastically, "oh look, he's alive"?
There is possibly more to this story; perhaps he has been ignoring her?
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Old 02-29-2016, 07:44 AM
 
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If that is the case, why are you worried about something so trivial?



There is possibly more to this story; perhaps he has been ignoring her?

no we had talked the day before

we hadnt talked alllll day. i was busy with work and then went golfing

the first text she sent was at 530 (i was golfing and didnt have my phone)

the second one was at 637 and i had just finished and responded at 645
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Old 02-29-2016, 07:50 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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1) Be nice.

2) Explain things better.

3) Don't believe stupid PUA websites.
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Old 02-29-2016, 07:55 AM
 
Location: Between West Chester and Chester, PA
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You might have a shot. I'm sure a message I sent to a woman last night was waaaaaaaaay worse! It was "--it 'female dog' u iz fyne!"

I'm kidding about the text.
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