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DWhy are you messing around and playing games, OP? Unless she has horrifically low self esteem and thinks she's unworthy of any guy's attention and it's normal to be ignored for weeks, you're turning her off. And she's meanwhile undoubtedly checking out other guys to date. You're messing with PUA, she's cooling off fast and checking you off her list.
Better luck next time, especially if with the next girl, when she says she wants to go out and you know you want to go out...you go out.
She has already mentioned that she sees no reason as to why you two shouldn't go on a second date. It looks like you, too, would like to see her again. Why wait until Wednesday to make plans? Sounds to me like game playing.
Dude, you should have scheduled the 2nd date at the end of the 1st date. Keep waiting around for no good reason and she'll lose interest quickly. You could have made the date in the time it took you to start this thread.
Had a first date Saturday Night. Went well, she dominated the conversation but it went well. She said she sees no reason why we shouldn't go on a second date.
We have been communicating since Saturday NIght, and I was planning on calling her early next week to set up a date for that weekend (11th or 12th)
Is that a good enough time? This weekend I have plans (it's my birthday and I've made plans) and during the week doesn;t match up
So it'd be two weeks. Is that good enough?
You were planning to wait more than a week to call her and ask her on a second date? Yesterday was Monday and you wanted to wait until next week?? If you're busy, you're busy. All you have to do is say, " I'd like to see you again but next weekend I have plans. Can we get together the weekend after that?"
Had a first date Saturday Night. Went well, she dominated the conversation but it went well. She said she sees no reason why we shouldn't go on a second date.
We have been communicating since Saturday NIght, and I was planning on calling her early next week to set up a date for that weekend (11th or 12th)
Is that a good enough time? This weekend I have plans (it's my birthday and I've made plans) and during the week doesn;t match up
So it'd be two weeks. Is that good enough?
Literally pick up your phone right now and ask her... This doesn't have to be rocket science. You're overthinking this.
In my experience, and from talking to womenz
at the end of the first date, this conversation almost ALWAYS happens:
"I had a nice time, we should do this again"
"oh definitely, I had fun"
"ill call you"
in one form or another...seriously how often, at the end of the night, does someone say "well that really sucked a$$, you bored the hell out of me, and you make noises when you chew...I never want to see you again, and I hope you fall into a deep crevace and get eaten alive by bugs...well, good night"
so the obligatory "ill call you doesn't mean squat UNTIL you do...wait too long and shes moved on, do it too soon and your desperate
dating today, Id text something the next day "had a great time last night, thanks for coming out with me" or similar
maybe call 2 days after date and ask her out again
women with lives (men too) usually make planes for their weekends soon..so if you call her Thursday or Friday for a date on sat, your sol
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