Did she not realize I was joking? (woman, love, friends)

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

Are you dating a high school girl?

Exactly my son's friends talk like that.

Totes Ma-gotes

[HokieFan]

Originally Posted by golflover8

Called a girl and got a second date

Was about to hang up and she said "do you miss me" i sai d"uuhh suure?"

She laughed and said "nice answer lol"

I said "ha im sorry i meant yes i miss you so much i just dont know how to deal"

she said "awwwkward"

i said" its called sarcas,"

she said"awkward well im gonna go now bye"


I was like wtf?

She came offas very sarcastic on our first date and even got mine

Last night she texted asking me if i missed her and i said "oh maybe a bit" and she said "how rude"

She has to know i was joking right?

I dont wanna be like "i was being sarcastic" and come off as insecure

What's coming off as insecure is this girl you barely know repeatedly asking if you miss her.

[1986pacecar]

Originally Posted by MoonBeam33

Are you both sarcastic? Are you trying to out-sarcasm each other?

That's what I was thinking. Sounds like a couple of wiseasses getting on each other's nerves.

[TabulaRasa]

I hope you are both very young.

[oh-eve]

Originally Posted by golflover8

Called a girl and got a second date

Was about to hang up and she said "do you miss me" i sai d"uuhh suure?"

She laughed and said "nice answer lol"

I said "ha im sorry i meant yes i miss you so much i just dont know how to deal"

she said "awwwkward"

i said" its called sarcas,"

she said"awkward well im gonna go now bye"


I was like wtf?

She came offas very sarcastic on our first date and even got mine

Last night she texted asking me if i missed her and i said "oh maybe a bit" and she said "how rude"

She has to know i was joking right?

I dont wanna be like "i was being sarcastic" and come off as insecure

So you only went out once and she asked you TWICE if you miss her??


Ugh. RUN!

[convextech]

Originally Posted by golflover8

Called a girl and got a second date

Was about to hang up and she said "do you miss me" i sai d"uuhh suure?"

She laughed and said "nice answer lol"

I said "ha im sorry i meant yes i miss you so much i just dont know how to deal"

she said "awwwkward"

i said" its called sarcas,"

she said"awkward well im gonna go now bye"


I was like wtf?

She came offas very sarcastic on our first date and even got mine

Last night she texted asking me if i missed her and i said "oh maybe a bit" and she said "how rude"

She has to know i was joking right?

I dont wanna be like "i was being sarcastic" and come off as insecure

Anyone that asks if you miss them after a first date has issues to begin with. Throw this one back.

[golflover8]

Originally Posted by convextech

Anyone that asks if you miss them after a first date has issues to begin with. Throw this one back.

i think she was joking

[convextech]

Originally Posted by golflover8

i think she was joking

Hardly. She was testing you. Throw that fish back.

[BobCaldwell]

Go forward with her, then, if she was 'joking'.

Make sure to post back in a couple of months when you realize you've been wasting time.

[JerZ]

Honestly, both comments seem immature: asking so soon if one is missed, and then "duh".

"Duh"? Really?

I'd be buh-bye-ing, personally.

I don't know, OP. I think you two were made for one another. But if this all blows up, which it probably already has, I'd recommend that in the future, even if you're taken aback by a comment or feel it's being made too soon, figure out a way to answer that doesn't sound like a middle-schooler. Then you'll more solidly know that you did the right thing and that any decisions you make from there are appropriate.

As an aside, if you want to "do" sarcasm, it needs to be somewhat more clever and less just nasty. Just nasty does not equal sarcastic. Sarcasm that's banter not intended to make the person angry usually has a little more finesse than this. OTOH, if you just don't have a knack for it, don't even try. Just answer cheerfully and honestly next time, even if the answer is "I haven't really had a chance to yet, but I did really enjoy our date."

JMO.