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I have said that things the OP named but in reality it's just to get women I don't want to date to leave me alone lol. No means no even applies to women as well and a lot women can't accept rejection.
Most of us have had significant others - potential, committed, or otherwise - break off relationships. In the past, I've heard the following excuses:
I'm not ready for a relationship now.
Am I gonna lose you too?
I'm too fragile.
I want to protect my heart.
I'm not ready to share again.
I don't want to lose myself.
After hearing such, one would wonder. Say you've been with someone for a brief time. You met, there was chemistry, you've hooked up, slept together, etc. Then one day, BAM! She (or he, if you're a female) told you one of the above. Is it real, or just a cop-out?
The reason they give may not be real, but the fact that they don't want to be with you is.
That should be enough.
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No one wants to explain why they aren't into someone, especially if all they're going on is a subjective opinion or gut feeling. It's easier and less hurtful to conclude that if someone is "not ready" to be in a relationship [with you] that they don't want to be browbeaten over the issue.
The OP needs to stop whining and accept the fact these women don't want to date him.
For your info, I am in a relationship! I was just doing some reading/research on dating excuses, etc. It was a hypothetical question, but obviously you find simple comprehension difficult. How old are you? 4?
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