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Old 03-03-2016, 12:10 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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This reminds me of Swingers and the scene where the main guy leaves 10 messages on a girl's machine one after another.
Indeed.


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Old 03-03-2016, 12:43 AM
 
Location: Manchester, UK
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I don't think that it was too bad. You were both teasing/joking at the end of that conversation and you're still (snap)chatting today. Just take a chill pill!
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Old 03-03-2016, 05:31 AM
 
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I don't think that it was too bad. You were both teasing/joking at the end of that conversation and you're still (snap)chatting today. Just take a chill pill!

she was texting me to
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Old 03-03-2016, 05:56 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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me: Im not wanting to jump into anything at all. just curious

me: If your just wanting a good time, thats understandable. if you just wanna see where things lead, thats cool to
me: I have no idea why i said all that. lets just go out next monday and have a good time


me: im not sure what happend lol. i swear i AM NOT a clinger lol
me: im not really looking for anything in particular. whatever happens, happens. i dont really like putting pressure on anything.
Just don't get all self-conscious like this ^^^ anymore. It's not attractive.

If you want to say something, say it ... without apologizing. But THINK before you "say" it.
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Old 03-04-2016, 07:10 AM
 
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things are ok now whew
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Old 03-04-2016, 07:22 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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things are ok now whew
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Old 03-04-2016, 07:34 AM
 
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Mannnn this girls sounds cool AF, it's hard to find girls with a good sense of humor that early on. You need to ease back on the throttle with stuff, no matter how bad you want it. Be patient with this one! Sounds like you could be rewarded greatly in the end! Good luck!
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Old 03-04-2016, 07:35 AM
 
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Mannnn this girls sounds cool AF, it's hard to find girls with a good sense of humor that early on. You need to ease back on the throttle with stuff, no matter how bad you want it. Be patient with this one! Sounds like you could be rewarded greatly in the end! Good luck!

im trying man
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Old 03-04-2016, 07:57 AM
 
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Hi, I really need some input here

I went on a date Friday Night and had a good time. I called her monday and set up a date for next monday

Well for some reason I got all clingy and needy on her yesterday with my texting

She is id nursing school and works so that takes up much of her time which i understand

We were texting yesterday and this is basically what happened

me:Sooo what are you looking for if anything?
me: Im not wanting to jump into anything at all. just curious
me: cuz i did have a nice time with you
me: If your just wanting a good time, thats understandable. if you just wanna see where things lead, thats cool to
me: I have no idea why i said all that. lets just go out next monday and have a good time

her: lol
her: chill
her: Im not looking for naything serious. nursing shcool is my top priority. i graduate and that comes before anyone else besides my family
her: are you wanting anything in particular?
her: Imean you were pretty legit over not being in a relationship

me: im not sure what happend lol. i swear i AM NOT a clinger lol
me: im not really looking for anything in particular. whatever happens, happens. i dont really like putting pressure on anything.

her: wait. i thought you and i had a connection? i thought you loved me!

me: that cant happen till you bowl

her: guess you'll never marry me

me: ha ill survive somehow


I laid off today. she snapchatted me today a couple of snaps but thats it

I don't know why I went crazy like that. I NEVER DO THAT. I really did have a great time with her and she really intrigued me.

I mean, I'm tired of playing games. I would like to get to know here and see where it leads is why i was aksing her that

So is there anything i can do? Did I ruin it? I mean she was tetxing and joking after
She tried to make light of the awkward situation you created.

Lay off the deep questions bro!
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Old 03-04-2016, 10:01 AM
 
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Oh my God! That was AWFUL! Oh yikes! LOL...
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