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Now ... you also need to change up your ideas about "horny time." There ARE other times of day to do it than bedtime, and there are other ways to let her know how you feel about her besides just getting into bed. Is there actual flirting and romance going on at other times, or is it just, "Roll over, baby"?
Weekends when we have nothing planned are great for this, sometimes morning, afternoon and night!
And yes, there's actual flirting, I just dont whip it out and say, hey, let's do this...
My son dates a girl who acts the way you describe your GF, especially the "being late" and making him wait part.
It's very telling. You need to tell her that you realized she is never really late if SHE makes the plans. It makes it look like she doesn't really care, and she should know that it looks that way.
My son dates a girl who acts the way you describe your GF, especially the "being late" and making him wait part.
It's very telling. You need to tell her that you realized she is never really late if SHE makes the plans. It makes it look like she doesn't really care, and she should know that it looks that way.
It's such an internal struggle with me. I really do love her, more than anyone else. We fit together in so many ways. But I have worked hard for what I have, and in regards to the cleanliness issue, when I wake up in the morning some weekends and there is just her **** everywhere, it hurts. I have a hard time conveying HOW much it hurts.
Same thing when I make plans that she genuinely seems excited about, then wastes half the day sleeping in or on the computer.
Why is it a struggle? You're afraid she'll walk out if you call her on something?
No, i'm not afraid she will leave, the struggle is can I live with it if she is unwilling to change. We HAVE discussed this, I probably have not been as forceful or shown how much it affects me when I have had this discussion, but I have not avoided it.
No, i'm not afraid she will leave, the struggle is can I live with it if she is unwilling to change. We HAVE discussed this, I probably have not been as forceful or shown how much it affects me when I have had this discussion, but I have not avoided it.
Bring it up again, but not from the perspective of how she needs to change, only from the perspective of how it affects you and makes YOU feel.
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