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Old 03-05-2016, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I'm hideous but I honestly think some of you are underestimating me. Just because I hate myself doesn't mean I have trouble talking to girls or anything like that.
It sounds like a bumper sticker, but you hate yourself and think you're hideous, what do you want from women? If you don't like yourself it's not on some woman to change your mind, and why should she feel any different about you?
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Old 03-05-2016, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Why do you hate yourself? Who told you, you are ugly?
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Old 03-05-2016, 10:27 AM
 
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I doubt I'll ever have a girlfriend but if I did I wouldn't obsess over her and would never get that attached to her but thanks for the replies.
You need to see a psychologist or psychiatrist pronto with this attitude.
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Old 03-05-2016, 11:58 AM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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Everybody have some insecurities in some ways. Just don't act like a timid.
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Old 03-05-2016, 12:15 PM
 
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Ya they kinda have a 6th sense for it
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Old 03-05-2016, 12:20 PM
 
Location: Princeton
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How you doing kid, you're friends can tell let alone a pretty girl, be yourself is all that we can do. Find a hobby that you like that builds confidence, like team or team building music or clubs, cars or sports. Stop you're crying about hating yourself and drink a beer instead, stop worrying about things you can't control and have fun with things you can. Join a gym or something like that can be a game changer, have you talked with you're dad? Older brother or sister? Rule #1 always be yourself, and if that's not good enough for some people ****'em and drive on.
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Old 03-05-2016, 12:53 PM
 
Location: California
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It sounds like a bumper sticker, but you hate yourself and think you're hideous, what do you want from women? If you don't like yourself it's not on some woman to change your mind, and why should she feel any different about you?
I personally just want to be able to see myself in the mirror without wanting to end my life and I don't expect women to make me feel better about myself but at the same time it would be nice to know that some women would find me attractive. I don't really care about a relationship because I could get a dog for that.
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Old 03-05-2016, 04:33 PM
 
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Sorry, but you are beyond anything anyone on a message board can do to help you
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Old 03-05-2016, 05:10 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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The sad thing is that most of the people who get on here stating that they're hideous are usually quite good looking. What good is it to be attractive if you feel ugly?
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Old 03-05-2016, 05:38 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yes, like a pack of jackals they'll shred ya limb from limb.
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