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Old 03-06-2016, 10:06 AM
 
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How old are your kids? Do you really need to start building something now when your life is all drama? Can't you just enjoy your kids and your real estate for a few more years and THEN when the kids are in HIGH SCHOOL start thinking about guys again? If it takes a decade to build a relationship with a guy then that's a problem right there.
My youngest is in preschool. I want to be married long before he hits high school.

 
Old 03-06-2016, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I wish I could sleep at home.

He is a homebody and does not want to go out and do things. He spends his free time cooking.


So as long as you come to his house, you have a relationship?

Sounds like an emotional booty call....
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Old 03-06-2016, 02:16 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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OP has huge mental health issues and craves attention. No amount of friendly advice will help, she will just ignore it and do exactly what she wants.
 
Old 03-06-2016, 02:22 PM
 
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OP has huge mental health issues and craves attention. No amount of friendly advice will help, she will just ignore it and do exactly what she wants.
So will everyone else on this forum.
 
Old 03-06-2016, 04:44 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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So as long as you come to his house, you have a relationship?

Sounds like an emotional booty call....

Pretty sad actually, the guy can't be bothered to even go to her house.
 
Old 03-07-2016, 10:54 AM
 
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I think it's odd that men have seemingly been the source of a lot of problems and angst in your life and yet you're looking to them to make you feel "safe and secure."
+1000

This post wins the "Insight of the Month" award.
 
Old 03-07-2016, 10:57 AM
 
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No he says it is because his kids want to stay home and they fight with his father when he is not there.

Sadly I think we just want different things.
Why am I not surprised that he has chaos at home (still) and that his kids are out of control?

This guy is another version of the other guys you have been with. His dysfunctional behavior is simply in other areas of his life.
 
Old 03-07-2016, 11:03 AM
 
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Why am I not surprised that he has chaos at home (still) and that his kids are out of control?

This guy is another version of the other guys you have been with. His dysfunctional behavior is simply in other areas of his life.
I am convinced they are all dysfunctional in some form or fashion.
 
Old 03-07-2016, 11:08 AM
 
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I am convinced they are all dysfunctional in some form or fashion.
Everyone has some issues in some areas. However, there are millions of guys out there who don't have relationship killing dysfunctions. You aren't attracted to those types though. You've said it here many times.
 
Old 03-07-2016, 11:14 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Take a nap before you go to his place.


Walk the dog before you go there so you can sleep over.


What does HE say about you leaving in the middle of the night? Does he like that? What's his solution to the issue?
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