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Old 03-06-2016, 06:26 AM
 
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Girls wil ask me what I'm looking for and I will tell them "Im not looking for a relationship right away. I would like to go on a date and see how it goes. If there's interest then a second date and soon and so on. If it leads into a relationshi great, I just don't want to put that pressure on our first date like we HAVE to get along well "


Does that sound good or does that sound stupid?
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Old 03-06-2016, 06:31 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Sounds fine to me.
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Old 03-06-2016, 06:31 AM
 
Location: who cares
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Nothing wrong with that at all
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Old 03-06-2016, 06:33 AM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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It sounds honest. Based on the game playing and angst I witness on this forum, it's refreshing.
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Old 03-06-2016, 06:44 AM
 
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Depends if that's what you really want. IMO, it's too wordy.

I typically lie about wanting a relationship because if I'm honest that all I want from her is that one thing and that I'm not remotely interested in exclusivity at any point, it would certainly be more difficult to get laid.
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Old 03-06-2016, 06:46 AM
 
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Thanks all.

If I feel a connection with a girl after a few I'll bring up the exclusively dating talk

I think jumping into a relationship right away is a bad move
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Old 03-06-2016, 07:03 AM
 
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Depends if that's what you really want. IMO, it's too wordy.

I typically lie about wanting a relationship because if I'm honest that all I want from her is that one thing and that I'm not remotely interested in exclusivity at any point, it would certainly be more difficult to get laid.
And you are the problem. Be honest and women like myself won't waste time with you. Look for the chicks that just want to get laid.
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Old 03-06-2016, 07:26 AM
 
Location: Central Indiana/Indy metro area
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Sounds a little wordy. I would shorten it to something like, 'Right now I'm mostly focused on dating around, but if I clicked with the right person, I'd be open to having a relationship.'
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Old 03-06-2016, 07:29 AM
 
Location: Canada
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When you say girls are asking you, is this randomly, or someone you're on a first date with, getting to know each other?

Honesty is good but at the same time, you're basically explaining how dating works, which is unnecessary.
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Old 03-06-2016, 07:40 AM
 
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....ok?!?!?....
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