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Old 03-05-2016, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You didn't say one or two dates. If it's that early then quit bitching and accept a girl has options until a guy mans up and wants to be exclusive.
Lol! End thread.
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Old 03-05-2016, 09:37 PM
 
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i was thinking maybe after 4 or 5
that may not even be enough. its going to depend on your feelings for her, and her feelings for you. evn though i dated her for several months, i never approached the idea of exclusivity with my last girlfriend. it just happened that way.
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Old 03-05-2016, 09:44 PM
 
Location: NE Mississippi
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after 1 or 2 dates?

no way
You're right, I think. The time will come to broach the subject. In the meantime when you talk about your activities of the week be sure to leave blank spots - in other words let her wonder if you are seeing other girls. And if there are blank spots in her discussion, DON'T bring it up!

Some day in the near future the subject will come up if it needs to come up. Don't push too soon.
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Old 03-05-2016, 11:46 PM
 
Location: Atlantis
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Understand that hypergamy is real. It cannot be reasoned with, there is no negotiating and it will always be a default option. . . . .


Accept it. Respect it and make peace with it.


A man must accept the role of hypergamy or risk being destroyed by it.


At least she is being honest about dating other guys and keeping her options open.
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Old 03-06-2016, 05:53 AM
 
Location: who cares
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If she is going on other dates, then you should be too.
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Old 03-06-2016, 06:02 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Or you could express your feelings. Say something positive so she knows you enjoy her company. Most women will get the hint and feel less inclined to date someone else.

If she doesn't get it, then she's just not that into you.
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Old 03-06-2016, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Your mom's house
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He's only been on one date with her. Sounds to me like maybe he's just jealous or being possessive, rather than having real feelings for her.
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