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Old 03-06-2016, 10:37 AM
 
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I was wondering if I could get some input?

I had a date Wednesday NIght. We went out to Applebbees and then a movie at my place. She did most of the talking. Not that I was shy, she just talked a lot (Might have been nerves for her) She kept apologizing for her unique weirdness, though I thought it was cute. We cuddled a bit and also made out and she stayed over. She left the next morning and I asked if she would be interested in a second date. She said "Sure I see no reason why not"

Looking back though I feel like i could have been more sociable. I didn't want to come off as too agressive, it was a first date and i was interested in seeing if there was a feeling I would want to see her again (which there was)

We In the 4 days since the date we have had minimum comtact. I'm not sure if I should view that as a good thing or bad thing
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Old 03-06-2016, 10:41 AM
 
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You didn't set a date before she left in the morning? You didn't say, "How about next weekend?" Text her that, now. Tell her you enjoyed her company and would like to see her (fill in desired day).
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Old 03-06-2016, 12:00 PM
 
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Why didn't you have sex if you were back at your place? If you get a woman back to your place, have sex with her.
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Old 03-06-2016, 02:16 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Why didn't you have sex if you were back at your place? If you get a woman back to your place, have sex with her.


Not what he asked, and not always true.

OP, just make specific plans ... Soon. Don't lose momentum. Be an active participant and not an observer.
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Old 03-06-2016, 02:40 PM
 
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Why didn't you have sex if you were back at your place? If you get a woman back to your place, have sex with her.
Uh, what if she says no?

You can't just have sex with someone like you're deciding whether or not to get a cup of coffee. Believe it or not, the other person gets a say.

OP, I agree with Wmsn. Call to make a second date. Do it right away, no reason not to.
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Old 03-06-2016, 03:03 PM
 
Location: PA
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Four days isn't a long time in the grand scheme of things. Go ahead and ask her out on that second date. You won't know unless you ask!
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Old 03-06-2016, 03:09 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Why didn't you have sex if you were back at your place? If you get a woman back to your place, have sex with her.
<shaking head> darn perv.
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Old 03-06-2016, 03:22 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Why have you had minimum contact since then?
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