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Everything in my life is going very well, except for one thing: I have no love life.
I'm 23 years old, I've only had two girlfriends and my longest relationship lasted a few months in 2013. I've tried online dating and I've spoken to women, but I haven't met up with any. I am fearful of ending up alone someday. I have been rejected by women I met in person 3 times in the last 18 months.
The majority of women I message online do not respond. How do I meet women for a serious relationship without going to the bar scene?
By that I mean would you be interested in dating your preferred gender of partner who has the exact same attributes you do? Someone with your level of career success, objective attractiveness, attitude in life, ambition, passion for hobbies, etc? If the answer is yes, then you are in good shape. If not, work on making yourself into someone you would find compelling enough to be with.
You could try volunteering, taking a class in something that you enjoy, or joining a Meetup group for local singles. Just go into it for the experience and not just to find a serious relationship. If you come on too strong you could scare women off.
Everything in my life is going very well, except for one thing: I have no love life.
I'm 23 years old, I've only had two girlfriends and my longest relationship lasted a few months in 2013. I've tried online dating and I've spoken to women, but I haven't met up with any. I am fearful of ending up alone someday. I have been rejected by women I met in person 3 times in the last 18 months.
The majority of women I message online do not respond. How do I meet women for a serious relationship without going to the bar scene?
Also, am I just not meant to find anyone?
Thanks
This seems unnecessarily dramatic.
Basically one woman every six months declined to go on a date with you? Do you know that there are men who approach 3 women in a week, not 3 in a year and a half? What is holding you back?
What does "I've spoken to women" mean? Where? How did you speak to them? What do you do in your daily life to put you in situations to meet people?
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