Am I being too cuthroat and dismissive as I date?

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by UrbanCheetah

And I think that is part of the problem. I am in Chicago and the LGBT community is huge. The problem is since guys think with their penises, and there are so many options here in Chicago, it seems like no one really wants to settle down. Too many options here for many people. Unfortunately I am not like that .

I was never much of a big woman chaser, I did a bit of it and screwed around a little, but chasing skirt wasn't really my thing. But whatever people like to do what they like. I'm not looking down my nose at those people, I personally just find that after you have a bit of the quick empty sex it's like, I wanna connect with someone beside just the physical, IDK...

[UrbanCheetah]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

I was never much of a big woman chaser, I did a bit of it and screwed around a little, but chasing skirt wasn't really my thing. But whatever people like to do what they like. I'm not looking down my nose at those people, I personally just find that after you have a bit of the quick empty sex it's like, I wanna connect with someone beside just the physical, IDK...

Yeah I am not judging either. It's just it's sad that it's the general mindset in the gay community. For example this weekend I just want to relax, but will be alone doing so. I will hang out with some friends but its not the same.