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Old 03-08-2016, 09:17 PM
 
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Suppose everything else is perfect but in bed there's no spark. Would you stay? Even if every other category they're the best partner u ever had?
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Old 03-08-2016, 09:22 PM
 
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Like if it's to the point you don't even want to sleep with your partner but still love living with them and having their company
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Old 03-08-2016, 09:25 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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In my opinion sex is not the ENTIRE relationship itself BUT it plays an important part.

If you're not the least bit sexually attracted to your partner....it will eventually cause issues in the relationship. No amount of telling yourself how great they are will hide the issue for long. The truth always comes out.
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Old 03-08-2016, 09:28 PM
 
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In my opinion sex is not the ENTIRE relationship itself BUT it plays an important part.

If you're not the least bit sexually attracted to your partner....it will eventually cause issues in the relationship. No amount of telling yourself how great they are will hide the issue for long. The truth always comes out.
I've already been cheating for 6 months in order to get what I need and it's killing me inside
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Old 03-08-2016, 09:34 PM
 
Location: Atlantis
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I've already been cheating for 6 months in order to get what I need


That's hot
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Old 03-08-2016, 09:39 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Good sex is a must in an LTR
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Old 03-08-2016, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I've already been cheating for 6 months in order to get what I need and it's killing me inside
Right Lol. Yet you keep doing....because you love your bf, right?
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Old 03-08-2016, 09:47 PM
 
Location: Your mom's house
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Depends how important sex is to you. If you've been cheating, it sounds like this isn't the right guy for you. He shouldn't be with someone who cheats on him, it isn't fair to either of you.
Also, have you tried talking to him about it? Sometimes it can get better if the person is willing to try. I've tried doing the bad in bed dating, and it never works. In my case though, I think the person had major issues and was unwilling to try/sexual things weren't important or interesting to him. It also is indicative of selfishness, if the person won't try for you.
So figuring out what the problem is is important, and if they're willing to change (though that may not last). Though often times, lack of chemistry will never change and you have to decide if you can live with that or not. But cheating is really unfair to him.
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Old 03-08-2016, 10:24 PM
 
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Never had sex but when/if the time comes, first and foremost we will both get tested (better to be safe than sorry) then see what happens in the sheets
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Old 03-08-2016, 10:29 PM
 
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Yes. Sexual chemistry plays an integral part in a relationship. Even if everything else is great, if the intimacy is nonexistent, stick a fork in it - find someone with whom you have chemistry.
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