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... He gave an example of sitting with an average dude as he goes through his OLD options, and the guy is rejecting perfectly attractive women because of stuff like "she's a Red Sox fan". Ansari said that in real life if this woman smiled at him at a bar he'd be thrilled, but he's ruling her out because she doesn't like the same thing he does.
Yet otherwise, people will get sexually involved prior to knowing something such as that example or something of more importance, and break it off for those reasons, after having become fakely intimate with a stranger.
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Originally Posted by Ro2113
... I mean you don't those guys complaining here about how they can't get dates and get laid. And isn't that all that really matters?
I'm not even talking about marriage or falling in love. Rather, I am just asking whether or not there is someone somewhere that would be willing to date Individual x regardless of all Individual x's flaws. The only reason I ask is because even prisoners sometimes get solicitation for dates. So, why can't random joe blow seem to get a date?
To answer you subject line = Yes. Mathematically speaking yes. However, I could be in Arizona and he could be in another state or country. He's out there somewhere. I just have to figure out how to find him!
Mere observation. Most couples simply cohabit out of instinctual need. It would take a long post to explain my observations in detail, but really, being madly in love is quite rare. I have known a few couples who are madly in love with one another, there are major differences between them and your average/settler couples.
You seem so intent on my need to provide proof, what about proof for your opinion? Convince me that most people find love, or at least try to do so. I would like to believe this fairy tale, but I do not believe it is real.
Agree with this, I myself decided long ago if I ever get in a relationship Co-habituating is not something I want, I need my space.
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