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The bf is a fool. Such ultimatums don't work, and poison a relationship going forward. He could have expressed a concern in a kind fashion and been supportive of her efforts, and THEN dumped her if she didn't do anything about it.
I suspect she gained significant weight while they were dating, but without more information from the OP, it's all speculation.
here is a thought since he has one foot out the door already why don't you put a foot up his arse and help him out said door and then don't let the door hit him where the good Lord split him .Dump his narcissistic butt now and tell me goodbye and good riddens to bad rubbish .
Some of you are responding without any idea of what her weight or BMI is. She could be one of those people on "My 600 pound life".
I don't think anyone is saying she definitely doesn't need to lose weight. That part isn't relevant to the relationship issue of "bf is telling me I have to lose weight or he won't marry me and he's now out proving it by seeing other women."
Whether she loses or not (or even needs to lose any) is not gonna change the fact that she's dating an ass.
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HAHAH you know dang well if the thread title "my wife is threatening to leave me if I don't lose weight, what do I do?" That every one would be like "lose weight Lardo, your wife needs a healthy husband!" and similar stuff.
Not if his wife was dating other dudes.
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My boyfriend said that he won't marry me if I don't lose weight. He has started seeing other women to show that he's got one foot out the door and he's ready to leave if I don't make an effort.
My boyfriend said that he won't marry me if I don't lose weight. He has started seeing other women to show that he's got one foot out the door and he's ready to leave if I don't make an effort.
What should I do?
Kick his ass the rest of the way through it (the door). Preferably while it's closed. Then give yourself a few months to heal, and find a MAN who will accept and love you for you.
lolllllllllll that was too good. Comment of the Day.
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