heartbroken that its over (dating, girl, college, calling)

[skyplant]

had talked to this girl 3 weeks straight. she initiated most of it. went on 2 dates.

she didn't text or snapchat me yesterday at all (i didn't either)


i snapchatted her this morning

she opened it but didnt reply

wtf

so i guess ill have to find another girl

[JoeCollege]

You are heartbroken to not receive a text from someone you've never met?

[HappyRain]

Originally Posted by skyplant

for 24 days straght this girl texted me first. yesterday she didnt


i guess its over for good

should i ask if i did something wrong?

Just try texting her 1st this time. Things don't always stay the same, and sometimes people want some reciprocation after a bit. Maybe she'd like you to show you're interested by communicating with he 1st for a change.

That can be a red flag for some people when they always have to text, call, or message 1st because they feel the effort is on their part, and the other party isn't really interested.

I would say call her, and actually talk, rather than text. Possibly set up a date to go out and do something. Whatever activities you both enjoy.

But hard to help with so little info. Have you 2 interacted in person, and gone on dates? Is she someone you've met online, and you haven't deiced to meet her yet? etc

[skyplant]

Originally Posted by JoeCollege

You are heartbroken to not receive a text from someone you've never met?

been om 2 dates

[snugglegirl05]

OP:

Is there a reason why you cannot text her first?

Communication is a two way street.

So the 2 of you have been on 2 dates....

Is there mutual interest on both sides?

Have you let her know this?

You do realize that you can create your own heartbreak by your actions... right?

Why do you wait for her to text you first?

Call her instead of texting her. Calling is a much better method of communication.

[BirdieBelle]

Mod cut: off-topic.

2) Please what? You want us to yell at her for not replying to you? You said yourself you had to find another girl.

[cpg35223]

Originally Posted by skyplant

had talked to this girl 3 weeks straight. she initiated most of it. went on 2 dates.

she didn't text or snapchat me yesterday at all (i didn't either)


i snapchatted her this morning

she opened it but didnt reply

wtf

so i guess ill have to find another girl

That's kind of how it works. Dust yourself off, Jeter, and get back in the saddle. Moping doesn't help.

[D. Scott]

You went on 2 dates, And for whatever reason there wont be third. You had no major relationship so while the disappointment is understandable just move forward. Dating is hard, Lots of let downs, phonies, weirdos etc. Better to know real early there no future then after 6 months or longer.

[skyplant]

Originally Posted by D. Scott

You went on 2 dates, And for whatever reason there wont be third. You had no major relationship so while the disappointment is understandable just move forward. Dating is hard, Lots of let downs, phonies, weirdos etc. Better to know real early there no future then after 6 months or longer.

so since she hasnt talked to me for a day and a half its over?

[CSD610]

Originally Posted by skyplant

so since she hasnt talked to me for a day and a half its over?

Yes, it's over since she didn't text you within 3 seconds.........
Seriously, chatting for a couple weeks, 2 dates and you are this emotionally attached? Don't put your hopes into one girl you don't even know. Your choices are to continue to live your life and date others or wallow.