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When did women start blurring disinterest with intimidation? I guess this is an offshoot from that "Real men like curves, only dogs like bones" garbage that feminists tried to guilt trip men into.
When will they learn that they aren't going to change a man's interests?
Got me on that one. the only thing I've learned over the years is no means no. Lol
Yesterday i visited the guy I've been talking to at work. He works in a coffee shop and I ordered an iced coffee but condiment bar ran out of half and half. I went back to the bar and ask him for half and half when he was getting it out of the fridge he dropped the whole thing. He fidgety grabbed me another half and half and he told me I make him nervous. Is he intimidated by me? Does that lower my chances of me becoming his girlfriend? PS I've been told that I can be very intimidating especially if they don't really know me and my personality.
How the hell was that intimidating? LOL.
If he's intimidated by that I'd look elsewhere if I were you
Yesterday i visited the guy I've been talking to at work. He works in a coffee shop and I ordered an iced coffee but condiment bar ran out of half and half. I went back to the bar and ask him for half and half when he was getting it out of the fridge he dropped the whole thing. He fidgety grabbed me another half and half and he told me I make him nervous. Is he intimidated by me? Does that lower my chances of me becoming his girlfriend? PS I've been told that I can be very intimidating especially if they don't really know me and my personality.
It could be that being watched makes him nervous.
It could be that he likes you and acts like a goof when he is around women he likes.
It could be that he is timid and is easily spooked.
It could be that you come off like a sinister ice queen.
As someone who is often mistaken for being miserable when I don't intend to be. I have the male version of the "Resting B---h Face".
You're my female version. I think it's by the tone and general reputation and body language. I didn't notice it until people tell me that I am intimidating by reputation but those who know me always know me as the nice and well spoken guy and a jokester at times.
What do you think makes you intimidating? People tell you that you are because ?
OP I think you are definitely putting the cart before the horse here. I mean you have been crushing on this guys for months yet have made no attempts actually tell him that you would like to date him, nor have you given him your phone number to see if I he would ever call you. And, you haven't even been on a date with him yet. Virtually everything about this guy as it relates to you personally is going on IN YOUR HEAD. It's good to be confident! Now, apply this confidence into either asking this guy out or giving him your number so he can call you if he wants to. But for now, there is no dating relationship nor a relationship of any kind outside of you being a repeat customer and he being an employee whom you have a crush on. IMO you should stop trying to read so much into a person whom you like but have not even asked out yet.
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