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Old 03-24-2016, 05:48 PM
 
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Brantley Gilbert 2.0?
You know, why do women have to be so shallow? Why do guys have to you all the approaching? I mean, it's not fair. Women have it so easy. All they have to do is sit back and wait for guys to approach them. Why don't they give more reserved, less good looking guys a chance?

Just thought I would speed up the process in little bit so he doesn't have to start opening up all his other user accounts to get to that point

 
Old 03-24-2016, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Most women will NOT show you explicit interest! They have been socially conditioned not to...YOU have to seek out women and make a move. Doesn't have to be nasty or explicit, but you need to find a (nominally) believable reason to interact...and yes, it can be pretty lame! But you have to do it and you have to do it a lot to get a few women who are interested. Don't take rejection personally, just go on to the next one. Good luck and be confident - fake it 'till you make it!
 
Old 03-24-2016, 05:51 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Either that or get plastic surgery so he can be as good-looking as his friend.

Plastic surgery wont help him or any guy that's afraid of women.

Just because a guy is good looking doesn't mean he has his work cut of for him. There's not one good looking guy (or any guy for that matter) who hasn't had to initiate to get a woman. None!
 
Old 03-24-2016, 05:52 PM
 
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Plastic surgery wont help him or any guy that's afraid of women.

Just because a guy is good looking doesn't mean he has his work cut of for him. There's not one good looking guy (or any guy for that matter) who hasn't had to initiate to get a woman. None!
Apparently his friend doesn't have to work according to him. *shrug*
 
Old 03-24-2016, 05:56 PM
 
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And they always say women haven't shown "the slightest interest in me". They also are always working on their professional achievements
And they have refreshingly few friends but all solo hobbies. And they say they work out 3x a week.
 
Old 03-24-2016, 05:58 PM
 
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Apparently his friend doesn't have to work according to him. *shrug*
And he doesn't, really. I'm not saying that he is the norm but he surely doesn't need to lift a finger to have women interested in him. I'm happy for him, though, not jealous. I often tell him to enjoy it as much as he can.
 
Old 03-24-2016, 06:00 PM
 
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Plastic surgery wont help him or any guy that's afraid of women.

Just because a guy is good looking doesn't mean he has his work cut of for him. There's not one good looking guy (or any guy for that matter) who hasn't had to initiate to get a woman. None!
In reality, some guys really don't have to initiate. I've known a few guys like this in my life. Women are just drawn to them for their looks alone.
 
Old 03-24-2016, 06:02 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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And they have refreshingly few friends but all solo hobbies. And they say they work out 3x a week.
They all also have a good looking guy friend/s that does nothing but shoo away women, Lol
 
Old 03-24-2016, 06:03 PM
 
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And he doesn't, really. I'm not saying that he is the norm but he surely doesn't need to lift a finger to have women interested in him. I'm happy for him, though, not jealous. I often tell him to enjoy it as much as he can.
If you had some smarts and a personality, you could use this to your advantage. Girls who are drawn to him will usually have friends, many of whom will be more interested in a guy's personality and charisma than just his his looks, per se. If you are hanging with this guy, it is pretty easy to meet these girls" friends. Doesn't sound like you have the personality though
 
Old 03-24-2016, 06:04 PM
 
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They all also have a good looking guy friend/s that does nothing but shoo away women, Lol
They are all thinking about using escorts also. Don't forget that part
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