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Old 03-24-2016, 03:42 PM
 
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I'm 24, never had a girlfriend or any kind of intimate relationship with women. I'm a regular looking guy, never been overweight, 5 ft 10, 165 lbs, average body. I go to the gym 3 times a week.

I've lived in 3 different countries with distinct dating cultures and no woman has ever shown the slightest interest in me. I never do anything to get noticed, though.

My professional achievements are the number one priority in my life but do you think there is likely something very wrong about me that's putting women off?

I've thought about going to an escort to lose my virginity but just because I'm curious about sex. I eventually gave up on the idea and spent the money on a new pair of trainers.
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Old 03-24-2016, 03:46 PM
 
Location: Mableton, GA USA (NW Atlanta suburb, 4 miles OTP)
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Are you actively meeting or interacting with women?

What makes you think they are disinterested?

Need more details. :-)
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Old 03-24-2016, 03:47 PM
 
Location: The Great West
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None of us know you so we don't have any idea if anything about you is repulsive. What I can say though is that sitting around waiting for someone to notice you is not an effective way to date. Do something to get noticed instead of putting the onus on women to approach you. You do the approaching. (By the way I would offer this same advice to a woman if she were asking.)

If at that time women all run from you like you are a monster, then maybe you smell or something.
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Old 03-24-2016, 03:48 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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I'm 24, never had a girlfriend or any kind of intimate relationship with women. I'm a regular looking guy, never been overweight, 5 ft 10, 165 lbs, average body. I go to the gym 3 times a week.

I've lived in 3 different countries with distinct dating cultures and no woman has ever shown the slightest interest in me. I never do anything to get noticed, though.

My professional achievements are the number one priority in my life but do you think there is likely something very wrong about me that's putting women off?

I've thought about going to an escort to lose my virginity but just because I'm curious about sex. I eventually gave up on the idea and spent the money on a new pair of trainers.

That could be your problem. If you blend in to the background people won't notice you.
It's not that women are "put off" it's that they don't notice you.
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Old 03-24-2016, 03:51 PM
 
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Different cultures also have different expectations of women and men, so it's likely that you didn't know how to approach dating in those cultures.
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Old 03-24-2016, 03:57 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Originally Posted by MilesKent View Post
I'm 24, never had a girlfriend or any kind of intimate relationship with women. I'm a regular looking guy, never been overweight, 5 ft 10, 165 lbs, average body. I go to the gym 3 times a week.

I've lived in 3 different countries with distinct dating cultures and no woman has ever shown the slightest interest in me. I never do anything to get noticed, though.

My professional achievements are the number one priority in my life but do you think there is likely something very wrong about me that's putting women off?

I've thought about going to an escort to lose my virginity but just because I'm curious about sex. I eventually gave up on the idea and spent the money on a new pair of trainers.
Very little little of what you've written sheds much light on your personality, so it's hard to say.

I will say that frequenting escorts is one way to be offputting.
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Old 03-24-2016, 03:58 PM
 
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Yes there is something about you that puts women off. With the small amount of information you gave us, however, it's very hard for anyone to tell you what that is. Put up a pic and keep posting and responding to people. Pretty soon we will get a good idea of what it is about you that is the problem.
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Old 03-24-2016, 04:00 PM
 
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The way you describe yourself makes you seem bland, withdrawn, and uninteresting. I am pretty sure that's the problem.
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Old 03-24-2016, 04:08 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Post a pic, guy, and the women here let you know what's the dealO.
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Old 03-24-2016, 04:52 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Maybe be more persistant when pursuing women? Be more active in showing interest. They won't come knocking on your door...


Don't be a creeper or stalker, but maybe let them know in a more obvious way that you are interested?


I am pretty sure it isn't your looks because even below average guys get laid.
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