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Old 03-29-2016, 07:08 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Hah...I met my husband, who is military, in our decidedly non military area, and was in no way looking to date anybody in the military. In fact, I'd always started that I didn't think I'd be a good candidate for being worth someone in the military. Lol. It just worked out that way.

You aren't approaching relationships in a very mature, healthful manner, though, from how it reads. You're just looking for someone to fill a slot, and your view of "military guy" borders on caricature, as well as being unrealistic.
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Old 03-29-2016, 07:14 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Do you mean because I'm naive or because I'm desperate

Yes to both, and you're a youngin, a child.
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Old 03-29-2016, 07:16 AM
 
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Yes to both, and you're a youngin, a child.
I'm practically 30
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Old 03-29-2016, 07:16 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I know that life happens differently for everyone. Its just that this is ALL I want like I would sacrifice everything else I just want to be married and have a family. It's unfair that I have to have CP and deal with this because I didn't ask for this life
So I take it you haven't looked for a CP support group in the past month so you can be around more people who are going through what you are going through?
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Old 03-29-2016, 07:17 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I'm practically 30



You're 25.

A 5-year-old isn't "practically 10."
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Old 03-29-2016, 07:20 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Your desperation to find somebody is probably limiting you more than CP.
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Old 03-29-2016, 07:20 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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If you are in a relationship with a military man or have been, how did you meet them? I have dated some that I met online but now as I look at job options I am looking in other states that are heavily military populated but I keep getting interviews here in my state which isn't. I REALLY REALLY painfully want a military husband because they are buff and strong and manly and hot and have good morals and standards just everything. I'm just concerned if I take a job here that I'm never going to branch out or find a husband and I won't meet military men. I know it's a strange desire but military men marry quickly especially if they are close to being deployed and I want to be married quickly and I would love them and give them a beautiful family. I'm just torn especially about finding a job because idk where to look based on my life desires I don't want to get stuck here where I am. What do I do I feel afraid to turn down job opportunities though because what if I don't get anything in the other states!? I'm just totally panicked like always lol
Move to Hampton Roads, VA. No shortage of extremely desperate military guys.
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Old 03-29-2016, 07:21 AM
 
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So I take it you haven't looked for a CP support group in the past month so you can be around more people who are going through what you are going through?
I have I found an online support group that I use but not an in person. I feel word when I'm around other handicap people which sounds awful but I've just tried so hard all my life to not acknowledge that part of me
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Old 03-29-2016, 07:21 AM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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This again?

OP, save yourself some time and just go re-read all of your old threads. Same advice still applies.
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Old 03-29-2016, 07:26 AM
 
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This again?

OP, save yourself some time and just go re-read all of your old threads. Same advice still applies.
I'm in a different place now like I'm closer to graduating these are valid concerns now
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