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Hah...I met my husband, who is military, in our decidedly non military area, and was in no way looking to date anybody in the military. In fact, I'd always started that I didn't think I'd be a good candidate for being worth someone in the military. Lol. It just worked out that way.
You aren't approaching relationships in a very mature, healthful manner, though, from how it reads. You're just looking for someone to fill a slot, and your view of "military guy" borders on caricature, as well as being unrealistic.
I know that life happens differently for everyone. Its just that this is ALL I want like I would sacrifice everything else I just want to be married and have a family. It's unfair that I have to have CP and deal with this because I didn't ask for this life
So I take it you haven't looked for a CP support group in the past month so you can be around more people who are going through what you are going through?
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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If you are in a relationship with a military man or have been, how did you meet them? I have dated some that I met online but now as I look at job options I am looking in other states that are heavily military populated but I keep getting interviews here in my state which isn't. I REALLY REALLY painfully want a military husband because they are buff and strong and manly and hot and have good morals and standards just everything. I'm just concerned if I take a job here that I'm never going to branch out or find a husband and I won't meet military men. I know it's a strange desire but military men marry quickly especially if they are close to being deployed and I want to be married quickly and I would love them and give them a beautiful family. I'm just torn especially about finding a job because idk where to look based on my life desires I don't want to get stuck here where I am. What do I do I feel afraid to turn down job opportunities though because what if I don't get anything in the other states!? I'm just totally panicked like always lol
Move to Hampton Roads, VA. No shortage of extremely desperate military guys.
So I take it you haven't looked for a CP support group in the past month so you can be around more people who are going through what you are going through?
I have I found an online support group that I use but not an in person. I feel word when I'm around other handicap people which sounds awful but I've just tried so hard all my life to not acknowledge that part of me
OP, save yourself some time and just go re-read all of your old threads. Same advice still applies.
I'm in a different place now like I'm closer to graduating these are valid concerns now
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