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Old 06-03-2016, 11:13 PM
 
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Wait a minute. You said the trainer girl goes to another gym in another town.
No... it's possible that she may have other clients in other companies would could be I'm referring to or did.
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Old 06-03-2016, 11:17 PM
 
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So, you said you're sorry "for taking too long" to ask for her number, and then you tell her you'll call her in a few days? WTF? Lmao
I will on Sunday evening. Even though she gave the number, I still sensed some resentment for stalling, but I do think she is interested. And she was pissed off was going to give up if waited too long.

So I need to comeback strong on this. So she knows I am interested and recover from the mistake.
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Old 06-03-2016, 11:34 PM
 
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Here's what happened...

I called it from my phone. We made some small talk she asked when my workload was getting finished. I
told her the time frame. I told I would get ahold of her in a few days.

You finally got her number, called her up and told her you'd call her. When you call her back, make sure you tell her you'll be calling soon.

Good job!

Mission accomplished. They all lived happily ever after!

Guess we wont be getting to 200 pages after all, sorry LC
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Old 06-03-2016, 11:37 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I will on Sunday evening. Even though she gave the number, I still sensed some resentment for stalling, but I do think she is interested. And she was pissed off was going to give up if waited too long.

So I need to comeback strong on this. So she knows I am interested and recover from the mistake.
You're telling us, she was pissed off (snappy) because all this time she was fantasizing about you, too, and that you took too long approaching her? lol oh that's good.

And how do you know this? Did she tell you?

If true, it doesn't make sense that you would 'stall' again and wait a few more days to re-engage her after she enthuisiastically gave you her number. Then again, this thread doesn't make much sense.
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Old 06-03-2016, 11:44 PM
 
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No... it's possible that she may have other clients in other companies would could be I'm referring to or did.
Are you having a stroke?
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Old 06-03-2016, 11:47 PM
 
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Are you having a stroke?
Well at one time I do believe he said he was a registered nurse, so if he is having a stroke surely he'll be able to identify all the signs...oh wait a minute...
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Old 06-03-2016, 11:48 PM
 
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Well you might able to time juggle well and have low stress
low stress? since when is a managerial position low stress? especially in the national parks? understand that at night I am it running the show. if anything happens, help is only a hour away. which means I am the one responsible for what happens. and that of course means i need to be up on first aid, including current CPR methods, etc. as for juggling time, that is something you have to learn.
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Old 06-04-2016, 12:09 AM
 
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You finally got her number, called her up and told her you'd call her. When you call her back, make sure you tell her you'll be calling soon.

Good job!

Mission accomplished. They all lived happily ever after!

Guess we wont be getting to 200 pages after all, sorry LC
Thanks but this seems like a dumb question . should I call or text her which will be sunday evening?

I mean some people prefer text some prefer the old fashion way. That other girl just wanted texts that was easy..

Or should I text first and then try to get her on the phone?

I have more logistical issues here, due to hear preparing for bikini contest next weekend. I might not be able to see her the weekend after next.... but again is that too long? but she's taking this bikini thing seriously its important to her she might be able to come out next weekend.

Her reaction to me asking was with no hesitation. Getting the number was easy ...like at some point if I did ask her she was possibly expecting it to happen.

So I was right she was interested..
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Old 06-04-2016, 12:18 AM
 
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Thanks but this seems like a dumb question . should I call or text her which will be sunday evening?

I mean some people prefer text some prefer the old fashion way. That other girl just wanted texts that was easy..

Or should I text first and then try to get her on the phone?

I have more logistical issues here, due to hear preparing for bikini contest next weekend. I might not be able to see her the weekend after next.... but again is that too long? but she's taking this bikini thing seriously its important to her she might be able to come out next weekend.

Her reaction to me asking was with no hesitation. Getting the number was easy ...like at some point if I did ask her she was possibly expecting it to happen.

So I was right she was interested..
I said it will be a few days. Twice but is a call preferred or a text? young people seem to like texting more
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Old 06-04-2016, 12:19 AM
 
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low stress? since when is a managerial position low stress? especially in the national parks? understand that at night I am it running the show. if anything happens, help is only a hour away. which means I am the one responsible for what happens. and that of course means i need to be up on first aid, including current CPR methods, etc. as for juggling time, that is something you have to learn.

different jobs and different stress tolerances. we're all different from each other
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