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Old 06-04-2016, 12:33 AM
 
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Well at one time I do believe he said he was a registered nurse, so if he is having a stroke surely he'll be able to identify all the signs...oh wait a minute...
Years ago I tried nursing went to finance instead
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Old 06-04-2016, 12:38 AM
 
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...Or should I text first and then try to get her on the phone?
Thanks for asking-- Text, tell her what time you will be calling (in an hour) and then give her enough time to prepare, then text in an hour and let her know you're calling now, then take a deep breath and call. After the call, text and say thanks! Then let out the breath, call back, like you just thought of it, and say you have an idea for a date: you will go to the bikini contest, let everyone know who her biggest fan is, lots of eye contact, then dessert afterwards! Whipped cream can be pretty suggestive
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Old 06-04-2016, 12:58 AM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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I said it will be a few days. Twice but is a call preferred or a text? young people seem to like texting more
Yes, those whippersnappers seem to like texting more.

How old did you say you were?
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Old 06-04-2016, 01:13 AM
 
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How old did you say you were?
He's an older guy, like 38?

Which then makes me I guess....a dirtnapper
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Old 06-04-2016, 01:30 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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ALWAYS RING!!!! As it adds the more personal touch and you seem keener only text if you think she's busy with work, meeting etc
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Old 06-04-2016, 08:01 AM
 
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He's an older guy, like 38?

Which then makes me I guess....a dirtnapper
So he described himself as an older guy, and he is describing the woman at the gym as 'young people'? This is getting even creepier. Reminds me of the story of that middle aged weirdo guy who killed women at a gym a few years ago because according to his manifesto, they weren't letting him have sex with them and he had been involuntarily celibate for over 12 years.
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Old 06-04-2016, 10:34 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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And if she says "no" she will find herself in a position to be repeatedly asked "It puts the lotion on it's skin."?
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Old 06-04-2016, 12:23 PM
 
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So he described himself as an older guy, and he is describing the woman at the gym as 'young people'? This is getting even creepier. Reminds me of the story of that middle aged weirdo guy who killed women at a gym a few years ago because according to his manifesto, they weren't letting him have sex with them and he had been involuntarily celibate for over 12 years.
I'll be 36 in October she's just turned 22. I have not been celibate, it's not that bad. but I have neglecting my personal life recently so I Have a fleet of people pissed of at me. This is just more of a challenge than usual.

I'm all wishy washy because I'm over taxed and stressed, last Tuesday I worked 5am-830pm. No I'm not joking. Every month I'm a doctors office for stress or a sleep clinic. I'm going again tomorrow.

I'm getting bites and interviews for more prestigious firms in finance with better pay so I'm really focused on taking my career to a higher level.

I'm trying to make excuses , but it contributes to my flakiness
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Old 06-04-2016, 12:39 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I'll be 36 in October she's just turned 22. I have not been celibate, it's not that bad. but I have neglecting my personal life recently so I Have a fleet of people pissed of at me. This is just more of a challenge than usual.

I'm all wishy washy because I'm over taxed and stressed, last Tuesday I worked 5am-830pm. No I'm not joking. Every month I'm a doctors office for stress or a sleep clinic. I'm going again tomorrow.

I'm getting bites and interviews for more prestigious firms in finance with better pay so I'm really focused on taking my career to a higher level.

I'm trying to make excuses , but it contributes to my flakiness
Now I know this id concentrate all my effort into getting ^^^^ sorted before you even think of dating

I completely understand working such hours but if you did get lucky with the girl in question look at it from her perspective...... She wouldn't see you much due to work and you have at least 2 issues that would only put pressure on both the relationship and more importantly her.....

I know it's only logical and natural to want a girlfriend but it's not really humane or just to put any lady in that position.

I've had a few things in my life that were sour at some point and I realised it's unfair to include a lady in MY problems, so I worked on them and sorted it out and I found that when I was happier in my life and about myself it was much easier to have a bird without feeling guilty

Please consider this
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Old 06-04-2016, 01:24 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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Now I know this id concentrate all my effort into getting ^^^^ sorted before you even think of dating

I completely understand working such hours but if you did get lucky with the girl in question look at it from her perspective...... She wouldn't see you much due to work and you have at least 2 issues that would only put pressure on both the relationship and more importantly her.....

I know it's only logical and natural to want a girlfriend but it's not really humane or just to put any lady in that position.

I've had a few things in my life that were sour at some point and I realised it's unfair to include a lady in MY problems, so I worked on them and sorted it out and I found that when I was happier in my life and about myself it was much easier to have a bird without feeling guilty

Please consider this
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
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