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I will get to it. I don't understand all the mass pressure.
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Originally Posted by Swan Dive
I mean it cant be rushed or forced.
no what you dont understand is that you cant take all the time in the world and ask this girl out at your leisure. you must step up and get it done or you are going to see her going out with another guy that did take the time to ask her out.
asi have said many times before, you snooze you lose. and right now you are snoozing.
no what you dont understand is that you cant take all the time in the world and ask this girl out at your leisure. you must step up and get it done or you are going to see her going out with another guy that did take the time to ask her out.
asi have said many times before, you snooze you lose. and right now you are snoozing.
Why do you bother when it's clear the OP doesn't. This thread should die... but not slowly, like how the OP seems to be handling things.
I will get to it. I don't understand all the mass pressure.
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Originally Posted by Swan Dive
I mean it cant be rushed or forced.
Well, some of us wanted to see you get the girl. But now it's becoming more and more evident you don't really want her. And that may be good for her because if you feel advice from strangers who can clearly see the writing on the wall is too much pressure and too stressful, how the hell are you going to handle a real crisis with this woman?
Why do you bother when it's clear the OP doesn't. This thread should die... but not slowly, like how the OP seems to be handling things.
hope springs eternal, though at this point frustration does also. with some people if you kick them in the backside enough, they tend to move forward and actually do the things they say they want to do.
however i think in this case we are beating a dead horse. as i said he needs to either get going and ask this girl out, or put on a yellow sundress with pink flowers, and become a regular conjugal visitor at the local mens prison and become otis's girlfriend.
I'm serious. This should be a CD-R challenge. Every person reading this thread who is single should try to ask someone out at their gym who they don't know, and report back here. Let's see how many of us can "pull the trigger" while this poor nebbish keeps his gun in his pants forever.
We can prove that asking for dates is not a science experiment. It's just a freaking conversation!
Who's in?
It's supposed to be gym day for me today. If I make it, I'll start scouting it out more closely. I started going at the end of February and other than Buff and Bronze, who looks to be about 20, I haven't noticed any consistency in attendees. Buff and Bronze likes to perform his workouts so he's a bit hard to miss.
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