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Old 05-11-2016, 05:21 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Minimizing Damaage if any occurs

Pathetic, I guess "hey, can I ask you a something?" and stepping aside is way too difficult, in your world...

Minimizing damage. Jesus christ.
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Old 05-11-2016, 05:41 PM
 
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Pathetic, I guess "hey, can I ask you a something?" and stepping aside is way too difficult, in your world...

Minimizing damage. Jesus christ.

Come on thats not necessary
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Old 05-11-2016, 06:13 PM
 
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I still want you to say why you thought she was "all but asked me out". I want to know what your thoughts were.
how many times has she said we should get together and talk? that is basically telling you that she wants YOU TO ASK HER OUT!!!!!

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I'll get to it. she has given me some signs so its not like I totally have nothing to go on.
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if she's alone there tonight I'll do it
more stupid excuses, "oh oh she has to be alone before i can ask her out". the question is WHY do you think she has to be alone before you can ask her out? what stupid voice in your tiny little mind is telling you that she has to be alone before you can ask her out?

all that is, is an excuse to not ask her out.

what do you think you will look foolish if she turns you down? are you afraid that she will say something to you that will embarrass you in front of others?
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Old 05-11-2016, 07:29 PM
 
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She didn't make an appearance tonight
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Old 05-11-2016, 08:29 PM
 
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how many times has she said we should get together and talk? that is basically telling you that she wants YOU TO ASK HER OUT!!!!!



I understand and I will she was not there tonight so I couldn't. She asked twice to talk. In the same talk. we talked a couple times after. She then said another time she has no life. That was last week.

I do think she wonders WTF Im doing. I could get into why in more depth... it has to do with her FB photos changes. That explanation will take too long for CD.

more stupid excuses, "oh oh she has to be alone before i can ask her out". the question is WHY do you think she has to be alone before you can ask her out? what stupid voice in your tiny little mind is telling you that she has to be alone before you can ask her out?

all that is, is an excuse to not ask her out.

what do you think you will look foolish if she turns you down? are you afraid that she will say something to you that will embarrass you in front of others?

The point yes I will act now. We have had a few talks and not totally a stranger anymore. So its time to pull the trigger. I see that she wants to ask me out and telling me she is single. She's telling me that because she's wondering WTF am I taking so long.

Tonight she was not there.

Also, we have been doing the eye contact staring thing for a full straight year. I knew via acquaintances she was seeing some dude. So I left it be..... until now.

It didn't work out between them and I overheard the conversation a while back. That it was over and they broke up. like maybe early part of this year.

So I started to get this going.

Here we are. You all know the rest. Or at least sort of.

This what I wrote before it was somehow meshed with your quote


I understand and I will she was not there tonight so I couldn't. She asked twice to talk. In the same talk. we talked a couple times after. She then said another time she has no life. That was last week.

I do think she wonders WTF Im doing. I could get into why in more depth... it has to do with her FB photos changes. That explanation will take too long for CD

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Old 05-11-2016, 08:38 PM
 
Location: State of Denial
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She didn't make an appearance tonight
Because you didn't go?
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Old 05-11-2016, 08:42 PM
 
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Because you didn't go?
No I was there.
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Old 05-11-2016, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I see that she wants to ask me out and telling me she is single. She's telling me that because she's wondering WTF am I taking so long.


I do think she wonders WTF Im doing.


I really doubt you're on her mind as much as she is on yours.
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Old 05-11-2016, 09:20 PM
 
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I really doubt you're on her mind as much as she is on yours.
No I have reasons to think she might wonder why Im taking so long.
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Old 05-11-2016, 09:28 PM
 
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how many times has she said we should get together and talk? that is basically telling you that she wants YOU TO ASK HER OUT!!!!!





more stupid excuses, "oh oh she has to be alone before i can ask her out". the question is WHY do you think she has to be alone before you can ask her out? what stupid voice in your tiny little mind is telling you that she has to be alone before you can ask her out?

all that is, is an excuse to not ask her out.

what do you think you will look foolish if she turns you down? are you afraid that she will say something to you that will embarrass you in front of others?
I dont want to deal with the gym gossip. Its the same people over and over. they all know each other
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