Eye contact question (relations)

[Swan Dive]

Nwgirl- sorry I forgot to post the quote from a couple pages back.

She knows she hasn't been rejected. I have slept six hours since Sunday. I need to sleep.

It's delayed but not toast.

[rbohm]

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

I dont want to deal with the gym gossip. Its the same people over and over. they all know each other

that is so much mental masterbation its unbelievable. as i said before, so what if people talk about you behind your back? and lets say they do, it will only last until someone else does something worthy of gossip, and then you will be yesterdays news.

the reality here is that you are a coward, plain and simple.

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by rbohm

that is so much mental masterbation its unbelievable. as i said before, so what if people talk about you behind your back? and lets say they do, it will only last until someone else does something worthy of gossip, and then you will be yesterdays news.

the reality here is that you are a coward, plain and simple.

No I'm going to get it done. This week was tough. I need sleep.

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by rbohm

how many times has she said we should get together and talk? that is basically telling you that she wants YOU TO ASK HER OUT!!!!!

I hope she still thinks this way. Other than time. I cant think of any reason why she would change her mind. I don't think she has recently become taken.

Yes I will get it done soon.Yes I will post it

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

If only you could "bump" the interactions with her the way you bump this thread.

Employ some of that persistence next time you're around her.

Yes I will. I agree. I just like to talk a few times. We have talked enough so yes I will do something it has been on standby for too long. I admit it


Does anyone else think with some of the things she has said she is more blanket and forward than I am?

Pipe down those of you laughing

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by Butterflyfish

Exactly what timberline has already suggested. If you insist on asking for her number rather than ask her out right then and there, then you could say "I'd love to take you out for coffee or drinks sometime, can I call you?"

That's what my husband did. He asked for my number and called me up the next day and asked me to dinner for the upcoming weekend. I appreciated that he gave me 2 or 3 days notice (gave me time to get a manicure) and he told me where he was taking me (so I knew what would be appropriate to wear).

No texting "a few times" first. There's no point in that, IMO.

I know what Im going to say. I'll reference what we said before abut talking and say sorry for taking so long.

I really am taking a few days off for sleep. I'm cranky as hell and look like I'm exhausted.

I need to be feeing well and in pleasant mood.

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by old_cold

As much of an admission as we're going to get.
As mentioned many, many pages ago.....fear of rejection.

No really it isn't rejection. It's awkwardness. I wont switch gyms.

I think she might say yes to be honest. I mean she let out more on the table in our talks than I have. I have been holding back .

I never expected her to say some of the things( clues) she has.

I initially started the approach after I keep catching her stealing glances at me. I knew her friends so it was an easy introduction.

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by Just A Guy

After all this build up, it's going to be quite the anti-climax when she says, "We are just going out as friends, right?"

I dont think thats going to happen, she know whats going on.I like to think I would have been shut down more obviously by now.

I mean the whole thread was me commenting on her looking at me while other guys talk to her.

[Swan Dive]

Next week I will resume. Friday tonight Im resting.

[Swan Dive]

This coming week I'll try to get it done.

I will only go in for the kill if she is alone.