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You guys say ask her out now but a part of me thinks that I need to flirt more and imply that I am interested.
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OK...that's the opening to keep this going for friggin-ever.
I do swear on whatever matters that I won't help continue it (sorry London)
This truly is my last post.
Even if one of you writes something almost irresistible I will not get sucked in (maybe just with a rep if I can)
OK...that's the opening to keep this going for friggin-ever.
I do swear on whatever matters that I won't help continue it (sorry London)
This truly is my last post.
Even if one of you writes something almost irresistible I will not get sucked in (maybe just with a rep if I can)
What would you do? I mean if I show interest it could turn it around. You see I need to show interest again so it's more definitive for her . But asking now. I don't know she is Flirty but more subtle
I need to unreject her. I mean if she totally thought she was rejected why does she come in super close among other things? I mean how do I make of this.
I need to unreject her. I mean if she totally thought she was rejected why does she come in super close among other things? I mean how do I make of this.
Unreject her?? and if she had " come in super close " why haven't you unleashed the charm!?
I need to unreject her. I mean if she totally thought she was rejected why does she come in super close among other things? I mean how do I make of this.
She is a person.
She is not a machine.
You can't "unreject" someone. You can't backtrack, un-push a bunch of buttons and push different ones instead.
With an actual, real human being, once you've humiliated and embarrassed her with ongoing rejection with all the many times she attempted an approach and even specifically asked to speak to you in private, once that feeling is gone, well...it's probably gone. Gone-gone.
Do you understand that you can't just mess up pulling a few levers and inputting data, re-input in what you feel is the correct way and the person's face will light up on cue and she'll want you again?
This may be it, SD. Over. You can try, sure. WAITING MORE sure WON'T accomplish your aims, it will cement her now-distaste/coldness for you. Asking NOW probably won't work either but that's an option; then at least you'll know for sure. But honestly I think this one is gone, gone, gone. Better luck next time; hopefully you'll behave differently.
You can't "unreject" someone. You can't backtrack, un-push a bunch of buttons and push different ones instead.
With an actual, real human being, once you've humiliated and embarrassed her with ongoing rejection with all the many times she attempted an approach and even specifically asked to speak to you in private, once that feeling is gone, well...it's probably gone. Gone-gone.
Do you understand that you can't just mess up pulling a few levers and inputting data, re-input in what you feel is the correct way and the person's face will light up on cue and she'll want you again?
This may be it, SD. Over. You can try, sure. WAITING MORE sure WON'T accomplish your aims, it will cement her now-distaste/coldness for you. Asking NOW probably won't work either but that's an option; then at least you'll know for sure. But honestly I think this one is gone, gone, gone. Better luck next time; hopefully you'll behave differently.
That's extreme she's not humiliated or rejected. She didn't attempt an approach. She gave out hints. Why is she still flirty with her body language. She distant but it's not severe . I think you think its worse than it is.
She would not do that if it was dead. She is likely doubtful of unsure. She made no bold moves.
I intend to come back and show more interest. What else can I do? It's like I have earn trust. She wouldn't come close to me.
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That's extreme she's not humiliated or rejected. She didn't attempt an approach. She gave out hints. Why is she still flirty with her body language. She distant but it's not severe . I think you think its worse than it is.
She would not do that if it was dead. She is likely doubtful of unsure. She made no bold moves.
I intend to come back and show more interest. What else can I do? It's like I have earn trust. She wouldn't come close to me.
Do you do this in your everyday life? As in, to you state what other people are thinking and feeling? People you don't really know well and who you aren't in the head of?
Do you not see the real problem with this? You don't seem to.
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Gone-gone.
