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TI don't get why she gets close to me yet is somewhat distant
Any ideas?
I'm going to go with this:
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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
Maybe she's getting "closer" because she has trouble hearing you.
My gym is obnoxiously loud even when there aren't a lot of people there due to the overhead system. I stopped using my headphones because I didn't want to blast them in my ears to drown it out.
When I've gone with my BFF, I've had to invade his space to check in with him to see where he's at time wise in his workout so he can hear me - while not deaf, he does have one ear he doesn't hear all that well out of. And if I'm on the wrong side in a noisy place, he doesn't hear me at all.
Someone can have hearing issues without it being apparent.
This may be the only thing in this thread that is believable. He has said that they aren't always there at the same time, though he does seem to go to the gym an awful lot.
Personally, I hate going to the gym - I'm one chiropractor appt away from being told my latest workout plan is also incompatible with my body, just like all the others before it so the gym hates me too - so for me to actually do it, I have to make it a consistent part of my routine. With my current plan, I'm supposed to go 3x a week. Weekends, I go in the morning so it's out of the way and I don't have to try to fit it in later. Weekdays, if I don't go right after work, it just doesn't happen.
You gotta be kidding me, everything I say Is real and in detail. I wouldn't waste my time on here if it wasn't .
My gym is obnoxiously loud even when there aren't a lot of people there due to the overhead system. I stopped using my headphones because I didn't want to blast them in my ears to drown it out.
When I've gone with my BFF, I've had to invade his space to check in with him to see where he's at time wise in his workout so he can hear me - while not deaf, he does have one ear he doesn't hear all that well out of. And if I'm on the wrong side in a noisy place, he doesn't hear me at all.
Someone can have hearing issues without it being apparent.
That's not it we stand close right in front of each other she moves closer in. She can hear me it was dafter s couple minutes.
Sorry, I forgot the only possible reason is because she's still totally into you and this isn't dead. And she wasn't really being distant and cold, she was just having a bad day.
Dude... nothing shows interest more than asking her out.
What's the matter with you?
Why is she somewhat distant yet leans in? I will likely up the flirting first and see how she responds. I feel like she won't do anything unless I'm expressing interest.
Sorry, I forgot the only possible reason is because she's still totally into you and this isn't dead. And she wasn't really being distant and cold, she was just having a bad day.
She's not extremely distant it's mild, she's not mad at me or unfriendly. I can't tell if you were being sarcastic
This isn't dead I'm going to keep talking and try to open it back up. I don't get why she gets close to me yet is somewhat distant
Any ideas?
She wouldn't do this if it was totally dead so I think something is still there. Our talks are getting better and were more acquainted. I'll try to flirt more and see how that goes.
Define close?
It could be a million reasons mate but to be honest you should have been more flirty and charming ages ago.
The one thing that I really can't believe is when you didn't approach her when she had friends with her, I know it's better one on one but IMO it shows that you're more serious if you're " brave " enough to approach a group of girls.
Even if it starts of as platonic and works its way up It really does work in your favour mate
Why is she somewhat distant yet leans in? I will likely up the flirting first and see how she responds. I feel like she won't do anything unless I'm expressing interest.
Oh my GOD!
Because she is being POLITE!
Polite!
As a woman (don't know whether you men are taught this sort of thing too) you're supposed to at least fake interest if someone is speaking to you. Because. It's. Polite. One way to do that is to lean in as if absolutely fascinated...even if you wish an earthquake would create a giant crevasse to swallow the person so you won't be forced to listen to his drivel any more.
She wouldn't be cold and distant and blah-blah if she wanted to go out with you romantically.
The leaning in is a socially-instilled behavior that we nice girls MUST do, well, until we get so fed up that we crack, yell at the person (hence embarrassing and humiliating him in public), then run away in tears and probably go join another gym.
She's not extremely distant it's mild, she's not mad at me or unfriendly. I can't tell if you were being sarcastic
The sarcasm emoticon should have been a clue.
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