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She's not extremely distant it's mild, she's not mad at me or unfriendly. I can't tell if you were being sarcastic
She.
Is.
Politely.
Detached.
Until you sidle up to her. Again. At which time she has to pretend she's riveted. For now. Until she can't take your weird games any more, cracks, and just tells you off...right there, in front of all those people.
That's extreme she's not humiliated or rejected. She didn't attempt an approach. She gave out hints. Why is she still flirty with her body language. She distant but it's not severe . I think you think its worse than it is.
She would not do that if it was dead. She is likely doubtful of unsure. She made no bold moves.
I intend to come back and show more interest. What else can I do? It's like I have earn trust. She wouldn't come close to me.
The longer this thread goes on, the more it sounds like an exact repeat of what you were saying in your previous thread about the other girl in the other gym who conveniently was "moving away" (even though she's probably still going to that other gym).
It could be a million reasons mate but to be honest you should have been more flirty and charming ages ago.
The one thing that I really can't believe is when you didn't approach her when she had friends with her, I know it's better one on one but IMO it shows that you're more serious if you're " brave " enough to approach a group of girls.
Even if it starts of as platonic and works its way up It really does work in your favour mate
Well I intend to ramp it up and see if I can bring it out again. Everybody thinks it was obvious before and i didn't act. Fine I'll see if I can change that.
The longer this thread goes on, the more it sounds like an exact repeat of what you were saying in your previous thread about the other girl in the other gym who conveniently was "moving away" (even though she's probably still going to that other gym).
Well I intend to ramp it up and see if I can bring it out again. Everybody thinks it was obvious before and i didn't act. Fine I'll see if I can change that.
Mate it's all or nothing now , you've brought it to this point.
This isn't dead I'm going to keep talking and try to open it back up. I don't get why she gets close to me yet is somewhat distant
Any ideas?
If she did like you in the first place (which I doubt because I think it is all in your imagination), it would mean she is still into you and you could ask her out anytime you wanted.
If she was never into you, it means she is just being friendly.
This has nothing to do with her feeling rejected. A woman who feels rejected isn't going to move close into your space in an attempt to do who knows what.
Until you sidle up to her. Again. At which time she has to pretend she's riveted. For now. Until she can't take your weird games any more, cracks, and just tells you off...right there, in front of all those people.
You're welcome, again.
I'm not playing games. She doesn't think that.she might not know what I'm thinking or can't read me.
Why is she somewhat distant yet leans in? I will likely up the flirting first and see how she responds. I feel like she won't do anything unless I'm expressing interest.
On the bright, if she is into you, it really won't matter how long it takes you. The main thing you would have to worry about is some other guy spiking her interest in the meantime. If that happens, she will lose interest in you immediately. In the meantime, she will be receptive if she was in the first place.
I still doubt she's even interested in the first place, though.
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, you've brought it to this point. 
