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Old 04-15-2016, 04:36 PM
 
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This girl recently broke up with her bf two months ago. We met through a friend. I told her she was cute and she told me I was cute. So, I asked her out on a date. On the third date, she told me she was thinking about her bf and thought she should give herself a year(try to) at least to think about having another relationship. After that we kept texting each other, "Good morning beautiful" and "Good night handsome" ect. This has been going on for a week. Till the other day when our texts became less and less flirtatious. I went down to her work because she offered me a drink and I took her offer. After that it became kinda silent. Thought maybe I could give her some space. It's been two days now and I have the urge to text her. Would it be okay to say "Hope you have a good day"? Or should I wait till she text me first? She hasn't told me I'm clingy but I want to still maintain a conversation and hangout. Without being labeled as too "clingy".
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Old 04-15-2016, 09:11 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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This girl recently broke up with her bf two months ago. We met through a friend. I told her she was cute and she told me I was cute. So, I asked her out on a date. On the third date, she told me she was thinking about her bf and thought she should give herself a year(try to) at least to think about having another relationship. After that we kept texting each other, "Good morning beautiful" and "Good night handsome" ect. This has been going on for a week. Till the other day when our texts became less and less flirtatious. I went down to her work because she offered me a drink and I took her offer. After that it became kinda silent. Thought maybe I could give her some space. It's been two days now and I have the urge to text her. Would it be okay to say "Hope you have a good day"? Or should I wait till she text me first? She hasn't told me I'm clingy but I want to still maintain a conversation and hangout. Without being labeled as too "clingy".
To what end?

I mean, she told you she needs "a year" to get over him, which is a pretty ridiculous amount of time. I wouldn't keep trailing after her after that.

No more "good morning beautiful" texts. Let it go and let her come to you if she's interested. You shouldn't have to convince someone to be with you.
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Old 04-15-2016, 09:55 PM
 
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Welcome to the long, drawn out, polite blow-off.

Some girls (not women) don't have the self-confidence or bravery to be direct.
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Old 04-16-2016, 08:56 AM
 
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Should I even bother maintaining a friendship?
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Old 04-16-2016, 08:58 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Should I even bother maintaining a friendship?
Not if you plan to hang around hoping she will suddenly "like" you that way.
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Old 04-17-2016, 04:51 AM
 
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To what end?

I mean, she told you she needs "a year" to get over him, which is a pretty ridiculous amount of time. I wouldn't keep trailing after her after that.

No more "good morning beautiful" texts. Let it go and let her come to you if she's interested. You shouldn't have to convince someone to be with you.
I couldn't agree more
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Old 04-17-2016, 05:32 AM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Throw her number away. She's gone. She lost interest. No loss. There's plenty of others.
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Old 04-17-2016, 05:55 AM
 
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She already said that she needs time. The two of you flirted, but she may have stepped back to avoid anyone getting hurt. No one knows.

Give her the time she needs, but don't put your life on hold waiting for her.
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Old 04-17-2016, 11:10 AM
 
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Take the hints Bro, she's trying to lay you off easy

Just move on
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Old 04-17-2016, 02:20 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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To what end?

I mean, she told you she needs "a year" to get over him, which is a pretty ridiculous amount of time. I wouldn't keep trailing after her after that.

No more "good morning beautiful" texts. Let it go and let her come to you if she's interested. You shouldn't have to convince someone to be with you.
This.
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