she said what i did was "annoying" (marrying, female, problems)
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Either way, if someone relates the intent wasn't what was received by the other the whole situation becomes moot unless their is a direct unwillingness to accept that intent in what was said was anything but innocent.
Give and take has to be both ways when communicating with one another
Funymann - maybe you should go back to bed Girl immediately changes status on Facebook, Instagram, tumblr ect to single"
Girl - may be you should find a new girl friend, jerk
Percentage - This is better than cable...."eats more popcorn"
I dated a guy who tried to fix every error I made, I married the guy who knew what I meant and rolled with it. Life is too short. :-)
BTW I wouldn't critique my husband either. He's an adult and doesn't need me to point out simple mistakes he is making.
Example: I may say, do you want tacos for lunch, when I really mean dinner. No need for correction. He knows what I mean, and I'm doing something nice by making tacos. He could correct me, and I could refrain from cooking the tacos.
Scenario A: me -" Hon, do you want tacos for lunch?"
Him - "It's dinner, not lunch. Yes, I want them."
Me- " great, you can make them."
Scenario B: me- " Hon, do you want tacos for lunch?"
Him-" sure, thanks for making them!"
If she finds that annoying, just wait until you see how she deals with the rest of life.
I'd tell her I found it annoying that she found that annoying.
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I've said Good Morning to people in the afternoon on purpose just to be funny. Also, when I get on the phone or see someone I haven't seen in a really long time, I always say, "Hey, haven't seen you in a couple of days! How are things?" If my bf corrected me when I was deliberately trying just to be funny, it would totally annoy me. At that point I would realize that he doesn't get me or my sense of humor and I'd have to reevaluate where this relationship was going. I'd rather be with someone who understands that I like to be silly and don't need him being a debbie downer with his grammar nazism.
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