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Old 04-18-2016, 06:53 PM
 
Location: South Texas
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I've HEARD that really attractive women tend to not be great in bed...because they don't HAVE to be.
This is true. There is absolutely no correlation between how good she looks, and how good she is in bed.

An average-looking woman with a good attitude and some skills is a keeper.

A very attractive woman who isn't into it and/or has lousy skills leaves a man feeling like he wasted his time and money on her.
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Old 04-18-2016, 06:59 PM
 
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This is true. There is absolutely no correlation between how good she looks, and how good she is in bed.

An average-looking woman with a good attitude and some skills is a keeper.

A very attractive woman who isn't into it and/or has lousy skills leaves a man feeling like he wasted his time and money on her.
Well, there are lots of average and below average looking women out there in relationships and I'm sure all of them aren't great in bed either.

OP, I think you can find a guy who likes you just like all the other average looking women out there do. Don't worry about the prettier women. The guys you like probably aren't 10s either.
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:02 PM
 
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This is true. There is absolutely no correlation between how good she looks, and how good she is in bed.

An average-looking woman with a good attitude and some skills is a keeper.

A very attractive woman who isn't into it and/or has lousy skills leaves a man feeling like he wasted his time and money on her.
Seriously??? You "wasted money" because she wasn't inventive enough in bed for your taste????

So if she's double-jointed and swinging from the chandiers she was worth the cost of endless breadsticks? If not do you ask her to reimburse you or what?
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:03 PM
 
Location: Texas
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The problem with this thread and the concept in general is the idea that you can 'win' someone by doing a particular thing.

Maybe in the movies or for a short, superficial relationship, but not in the long run.
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:09 PM
 
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Seriously??? You "wasted money" because she wasn't inventive enough in bed for your taste????

So if she's double-jointed and swinging from the chandiers she was worth the cost of endless breadsticks? If not do you ask her to reimburse you or what?
You know I hate to agree with you just as much as you hate to agree with me but yeah...I especially loved the bolded. lol
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:10 PM
 
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I have interacted with a lot of less attractive women and they tend to be nicer and more approachable than their prettier counterparts. They're more pleasant to talk to and more enjoyable to be around. Prettier women on the hand aren't so nice in public. They're cold, unapproachable, and can be rude to men who approach them.This is just my experience. Overall, I'd prefer the less attractive woman and they are on my radar first.
THIS is how I feel about guys! Well put.
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:13 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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This situation can easily be solved by not competing.

It never turns out good because it all comes down to compatibility and chemistry. You can't control either one of those factors, so competing with another person is just a waste of time. How a person looks by no means tells you what kind of person they are. Don't judge a book by its' cover.

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Old 04-18-2016, 07:14 PM
 
Location: louisville
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Hello.

Let's say you have a choice between two girls, both the same age (let's say 24), and both the same size (both are a size 2).

One is significantly more beautiful in the face, and absolutely no one would call her ugly; her personality isn't terrible either, it's very down to earth, and she's sweet to you.

The other has a significant amount in common with you (such as you share a common hobby or two) and is well-traveled, well-read, etc. for her age. Her face isn't horrid, but definitely not beautiful. She's rather calm and kind also.

If these two girls were competing for the same guy (you), what would the "less attractive" one have to do to win you over? (For long-term love).

I find myself in this position a lot...as the unattractive one.

I'm not asking about a specific guy or whining, but rather, asking for tips and ideas that might help me "compete" with prettier women my same age.

I know that the usual advice is "work out, makeup, hair, dress nice", however, those things can only do so much when your unattractiveness lies in genetic factors, like having a huge nose.

Thanks in advance for your advice. I appreciate honesty above all; that's always more useful.
Just be yourself. That's all one really can do
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Ralphs
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Seriously??? You "wasted money" because she wasn't inventive enough in bed for your taste????

So if she's double-jointed and swinging from the chandiers she was worth the cost of endless breadsticks? If not do you ask her to reimburse you or what?
No, but he might show up 15 minutes early to the next date.
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Seriously??? You "wasted money" because she wasn't inventive enough in bed for your taste????

So if she's double-jointed and swinging from the chandiers she was worth the cost of endless breadsticks? If not do you ask her to reimburse you or what?
That's an automatic winner^imb
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