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Old 04-26-2016, 11:42 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Because he was just a "date" for her and not important enough. If you have such a busy life, you'll spend your time wisely. And if there is no room for even a meal with the "bf" he wasn't really her boyfriend.
True. In fact, it sounds like she's been pretty much out of the picture for most of the 3rd month of those 3, so they've really only been dating a little over 2 months. That's not a girlfriend. That's someone you're dating to see if they could be relationship/gf material. And the answer to that exploration was "no". Not a great loss, except that he liked her personality the first few dates.
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Old 04-27-2016, 01:02 AM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Ladies, come on... LOL... why are ya bothering??

It's like catnip......
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Old 04-27-2016, 05:44 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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On to the next marshmallow. Better luck next time.
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Old 04-27-2016, 05:53 AM
 
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I dont think that the accomodating guy like you gets her juices flowing, run before she officially dumps you.
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Old 05-26-2016, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles CA
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I think you answered your own question. Are you familiar with the phrase "never make someone a priority who is only willing to make you an option"?

How long have you been dating and has she always been this busy or is this a recent development?
UPDATE: Yea old thread I have not heard anything since we broken up but she just text me to apologize and realize that she should have been there more for me that she was selfish and thou she can make it up to me but at this point no.
And you are right I love that quote
I will get back to dating pretty soon but I want to improve my career life a bit before moving on.
I did say its okay but I never wanted anything with her ever again.
Workaholics rarely change so its more likely she will be the same person again.

Theres been some threads I see that their own husband or wifes don't make time for each other but I don't really want to date someone like that again.

I guess you learn from your mistakes but then again the kind of woman i tend to attract more seem to be the highly ambituous one which is really not a problem until long hours and time away seem to conflict in the relationships
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