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I am spiritual BECAUSE I believe in Jesus and I am not religious. Enlighten me as to how one is a heathen and spiritual? Oh and I agree that the OP should run from this guy and fast!
Wow. No sense of humor here? I use heathen in a humorous sense. We're not Christian. We're spiritual. I'm sure there are many Christians who would say you can't be spiritual without following Christ. I strongly disagree.
BTW, being Christian makes you religious. I'm talking about being spiritual. I believe in a higher power, just not yours.
Definition of heathen per Google: a person who does not belong to a widely held religion (especially one who is not a Christian, Jew, or Muslim) as regarded by those who do.
Anyways, this is a relationships forum so let's try and stay on topic.
The right thing to do is to wear a burka at all times. Take your sister burka shopping and buy one for her, so she can put it on when you come over. Wouldn't hurt if your mom did the same. As long as everyone shows maximum respect for his beliefs you two will have a long and happy life together.
Cultures and freedom to wear what you want aside. His looking and staring your sister repeatedly is just gross. I bet if you're wearing close to nothing that day, his eyes will still follow your sister which is worst.
The right thing to do is to wear a burka at all times. Take your sister burka shopping and buy one for her, so she can put it on when you come over. Wouldn't hurt if your mom did the same. As long as everyone shows maximum respect for his beliefs you two will have a long and happy life together.
It won't solve the core problem, for what it seems he is likely to undress her in his mind even if she is all wrapped up. Doesn't sound like he has basic ethics to refrain from looking and it's his girlfriend's family member.
In fact I think the OP did say people where she lives do tend to dress the way her sister dresses.
So I see what CAOU was saying here. I think he may have a point...these two may just be TOO different cultures-wise.
I know I couldn't do it, terrible though that sounds. I couldn't be with a man who, culturally, felt that restrictive about women and was that serious about rules and the like. Just no way. I'm sure some women could. Not I and not the OP either, I don't think.
Not sure why you say "I couldn't do it, terrible though that sounds" - the guy is grossly incompatible. You are well within your rights and normal behavior to give him the boot. The same way I gave women who wanted kids the boot when I was single - hello, no, I'm not goin' there, therefore, goodbye!
Not sure why you say "I couldn't do it, terrible though that sounds" - the guy is grossly incompatible. You are well within your rights and normal behavior to give him the boot. The same way I gave women who wanted kids the boot when I was single - hello, no, I'm not goin' there, therefore, goodbye!
Hi everyone just wanted to introduce myself to everyone here at the forum. Wishing everyone a happy new 2016. I lived in norfolk va,usa I am disabled person.my interests are cycling, movies,poetry,and just to live in peace.
Hi everyone just wanted to introduce myself to everyone here at the forum. Wishing everyone a happy new 2016. I lived in norfolk va,usa I am disabled person.my interests are cycling, movies,poetry,and just to live in peace.
Hi Kevin.
Yes LOL you have picked the wrong thread for a cheery and happy post mate for sure
I dont have a problem with him telling you what to wear. more women need to be told what is "modest". There is a difference between " hey id prefer you didnt wear tank tops because it shows your stomach and bra" VS "I told you to wear only black and youre going to pay for putting that red top on!"
Oh, because women are idiots and need to be told what to do, right?
where do u cavemen get dates, anyway?
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