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LOL, last time I checked talking about that was not really pg13, but whatever. I agree, she needs to grab the biggest most vieny-ist foot long jobber and turn her loose on the guy.
Have you communicated with her about this? It doesn't sound like it, except to fight about your using a condom. Did you ask her what bc alternative she chose? You two are a couple; usually bc choices are somewhat of a mutual thing at least to the extent that it gets discussed; if the woman wants a change, she'll usually say something about that in advance, to keep her partner informed.
Do you know how to communicate constructively with your gf?
I wonder the same thing. Does the OP seriously think they'll keep going out forever and just use a condom? The GF is probably thinking they're exclusive. If they get tested for STDs and discuss birth control options, there might be options other than using a condom since at that point the main goal is to prevent pregnancy, not an STD.
If she really wanted to get pregnant without the OP knowing, she would have pretended to be on the BC, convinced the OP not to use a condom, and then voila- she'd have gotten pregnant and stated that BC just isn't 100% effective (particularly when you haven't taken it for months). Instead it seems like she's trying to open up a conversation and it's just a one-sided thing where the OP wants to be the one making all the decisions.
In answer to Ruth4Truth- yes, the sponge is back and available at your standard drug stores.
She's radioactive and has baby rabies! Don't walk away, RUN away!
That cracked me up.
Dude, we told you this like a week ago. If you aren't broken up yet that's your problem.
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Dude, we told you this like a week ago. If you aren't broken up yet that's your problem.
I know I should have ended I just don't know what happens! Part of me wants to break up but I feel trapped, looks like something is keeping me from breaking up. You understand, sometimes I want to break up sometimes I don't. But I know this is not good for both of us, either way! Maybe I should have courage to break up instead of being a coward!
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