Should I make him leave

[rbohm]

Originally Posted by Faithful in mi

My boyfriend is so insecure and jealous, he demands to know everywhere I go and who I talk to. I bust my butt working to support us and when I'm not at work I'm home. He reads my text and emails, and doesn't let me go on fb, but says it has nothing to do with trust. What is your opinion. BTW I have never cheated on him in the four yrs we've been together!

so you have "let" him control your life for four years? sorry but i wont let anyone control my life for four hours, let alone four years. its time to send him packing. if the place is in your name, start eviction proceedings against him. if you are renting, then wait until the lease is up, and move into your own place and DONT let him in, and dont give him a key or any other access. either way this relationship needs to end as soon as possible.

[RbccL]

Originally Posted by annoying

Omg
That's terrible

That does sound terrible. I just reread it. I really don't think I knew any better. Who knows why people put up with abuse.

In my case I grew up in an era when divorce was taboo, I felt embarrassed by my single mom. It was an oddity. My friends parents felt sorry for me and invited me over for dinner all of the time, but some friends weren't allowed to come to my house.

I stayed married because I had a child and I think it was so ingrained that the only stable "good" people were the ones who didn't get divorced.

Yeah, weird.
I hope you listen to the logical advice of others -OP- and realize that this relationship you have isn't fun or good for your self esteem, BEFORE you get married and raise a child with this environment.

What's the worse that could happen if you were alone? Peace and quiet? Ice cream for dinner, being able to have a friendly conversation with a guy in line at the grocery store without feeling guilty?

You know the answer to this already.

[thatsallrightmama]

Get. Out.

MUY rapido.