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Old 05-04-2016, 09:56 AM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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No.
LMAO. One word, definitive answers, are often more telling than ones with detail. They conjure all manner of things, and drive a point home in a decisive manner.
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Old 05-05-2016, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Pa
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LMAO. One word, definitive answers, are often more telling than ones with detail. They conjure all manner of things, and drive a point home in a decisive manner.
You know it.
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Old 05-05-2016, 05:28 PM
 
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is it me or does it truly get boring/pathetic after you've hooked up with a large number of chicks(25+)?

its gotten to the point where its not only not that physically satisfying but almost depressing. Anyone else know this feeling?(not here to brag or nothing) I thou hooking up would still be fun but it's almost not anymore

And no its not the quality of women.
Congratulations. You've learned that, heretofore, your encounters have been nothing more than masturbating inside a woman's body. Because without some kind of connection, that's exactly what it is.

Now that you are showing signs of growing up (Of course, the use of the word 'chicks' gives me pause), try thinking of women as real people to know and understand, as in someone with whom you can hang out the next morning over pancakes or reading the newspaper together on a lazy Sunday afternoon. Not just targets for you to score and then move on.
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Old 05-05-2016, 07:48 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Congratulations. You've learned that, heretofore, your encounters have been nothing more than masturbating inside a woman's body. Because without some kind of connection, that's exactly what it is.

Now that you are showing signs of growing up (Of course, the use of the word 'chicks' gives me pause), try thinking of women as real people to know and understand, as in someone with whom you can hang out the next morning over pancakes or reading the newspaper together on a lazy Sunday afternoon. Not just targets for you to score and then move on.

Oh please, chicks means nothing, nor does "girls", plenty of mature adult women say "boys" too or "guys" or whatever. And hooking up and dating and caring for individuals are hardly mutually exclusive things. Most people seem to date around, hook up, etc in between relationships. It's the usual path to relationships. It all has their place. The problem occurs when you're stuck in an all or nothing mode. As in you can't have serious relationships, or you can't chill out and be cool with casual.

Of course, it isn't like a one night stand can't include breakfast and a post breakfast "nap" as well. People can be classy and good to each other even in fleeting connections.
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Old 05-05-2016, 07:56 PM
 
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I've always been the relationship type. Not really into hooking up.
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