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Thanks for the contributions. I'm really trying to ask these women about themselves and not do all the talking.
You're welcome, but what it really boils down to though is her preferences. If someone were too touchy with me too fast (playful poking or what have you) that would make me feel extremely uncomfortable. Or if someone were too over the top with their massaging words without a hint of an invitation, then i would certainly keep it moving. For me, you have to graduate to that level to even be in my personal space like that (mind and body). Adjust to her. Learn her body language. Listen to her, she will give you the blueprints. Women are natural help-mates. If we're really into you, we want you to get it right! Good luck!
Ha, yeah this should get a good conversation started, especially if you have to go on the red line.
"Hey, not sure if you take Metro, but Red Line is a mess tonight. 40-minute delays."
"Damn! Again? Guess I'm stuck."
"Wanna kill the time with some coffee/a drink?"
I wouldn't be surprised if something like that--"Drink for the delay?"--became as popular for Washingtonians as "meet me under the elephant." (For those outside the Beltway, this is referencing the African elephant in the rotunda of the National Museum of Natural History, quite a popular place for meeting up with friends, dates, OLD dates, etc.)
When I'm stuck for something to say I ask the person questions about themselves. People love talking about themselves and I've found that showing interest in them leads to more relaxed conversations.
You're welcome, but what it really boils down to though is her preferences. If someone were too touchy with me too fast (playful poking or what have you) that would make me feel extremely uncomfortable. Or if someone were too over the top with their massaging words without a hint of an invitation, then i would certainly keep it moving. For me, you have to graduate to that level to even be in my personal space like that (mind and body). Adjust to her. Learn her body language. Listen to her, she will give you the blueprints. Women are natural help-mates. If we're really into you, we want you to get it right! Good luck!
"Accidental" footsie would come across creepy. It's too weird.
As with most things, it depends on how you do it. There's a technique to it.
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