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The time that I did I was so filled with anxiety the entire 90 days waiting for various STD results to come back, and that was so exhausting and scary (we're talking life or death here folks) that it became apparent to me in an "in my face" kind of way that no amount of fleeting pleasure is worth that risk (10 minutes versus my life.....hmmmm....is this a no-brainer or what?)
Also that was when I started seeing it as a high act of self-respect, so when I was tempted, i could no longer "get around the rule" without blatantly saying to myself in my head, "Well then you treat yourself in this degrading debasing way...is that all the less you value yourself? You treat yourself like trash, how do you expect anyone else to treat you any differently?" It works for me!
He had shagged Alotta Fajina (#2's girl friend) and when asked by the other agent (forgot her name) if he had protection, he said, "yes baby I had my 9mm automatic"!
Whether or not a condom is used depends solely on one's intelligence and self esteem. In this day and age everyone over age 21 knows the dangers of having sex without a condom. If you choose to have random sex (sex with someone who you don't know their status) then you either like playing with fire, don't care if you get AIDS or you are so desperate to have a Man/Woman that you're willing to risk everything to "keep" them. Think about it, if someone wants to have sex with you without a condom then they've had sex with many without one. They could have anything and not know it, especially since they're usually the ones who don't get tested regularly. There's no "throw caution into the wind" when it comes to sex, you either want to live or you don't.
I used a condom once. Resulted in my second child! Might I suggest not using a cheap gas station condom if your looking at preventing anything.
wait wait. You used a condom ONCE? or you've had sex thousands of times and NEVER got pregnant from all those times yet you used the condom once and it was that ONE time that you got pregnant. Right lol.
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