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Old 05-04-2016, 03:32 PM
 
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Don't confront him, but maybe check in and say "hey- how's it going? I just noticed your status on relationships. Let me know how that goes, I could always use some tips"
If I got a message like this I would take it to mean the person who sent it is not interested.
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Old 05-04-2016, 03:33 PM
 
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I think dude means he doesn't want a relationship with you. Accept it at face value. Do the that shows self-respect about yourself and keep it moving.
Agreed!
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Old 05-04-2016, 03:38 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Yeah but....maybe he didn't lie. He wasn't ready then, he is ready now...and what if he's ready for you? Who knows, maybe the kissy face and "likes" are his way of testing the waters? Maybe his invite to hang out was going to be his way of checking your interest?

Don't confront him, but maybe check in and say "hey- how's it going? I just noticed your status on relationships. Let me know how that goes, I could always use some tips"

His response should clear things up, and if he's looking for someone other than you...oh well!
Maybe the kissy face and constantly liking my pics is a way to stay on good terms or feeling bad because things ended? Because if he was ready and seeking me wouldn't he reach out to me instead of posting a status to the world saying "I'm looking"?
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Old 05-04-2016, 03:40 PM
 
Location: NYC
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You don't have to block him, just hide him. He'll never know, and you won't look like you overreacted.
If I hide him could he still see my statues?
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Old 05-04-2016, 03:40 PM
 
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Because if he was ready and seeking me wouldn't he reach out to me instead of posting a status to the world saying "I'm looking"?
Yes.
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Old 05-04-2016, 03:41 PM
 
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If I hide him could he still see my statues?
If you unfollow him, he will still see your updates on his feed but you will not see his unless you go to his page.
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Old 05-04-2016, 03:43 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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He did not lie.
He did not want a relationship at that time. He even told you "that if I wanted to stop seeing him that he'll understand ".

He got his life together now, and he is ready.

No need to confront him, as that makes you look like a desperate fool.
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Old 05-04-2016, 03:45 PM
 
Location: NYC
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If you unfollow him, he will still see your updates on his feed but you will not see his unless you go to his page.
I really don't want him to see my statuses. I just want to "disappear" from him. In a way I kinda feel like if I block or delete him he will see that I'm hurt. I am but I don't want him to see that. I guess I should just leave it alone and act like I don't care.
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Old 05-04-2016, 03:50 PM
 
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Maybe the kissy face and constantly liking my pics is a way to stay on good terms or feeling bad because things ended? Because if he was ready and seeking me wouldn't he reach out to me instead of posting a status to the world saying "I'm looking"?
Maybe he changed his mind and is scared to come right out and say it in case you moved on. Id bring it up, the fact that he's looking for a relationship, you don't have to sound hurt about it, I wouldn't want to look desperate, just curious. I'm only suggesting this because it happened to me and the guy took like months to realize he wanted a relationship after all. With me. It was too late, but now I know and maybe some other time
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Old 05-04-2016, 03:55 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Maybe he changed his mind and is scared to come right out and say it in case you moved on. Id bring it up, the fact that he's looking for a relationship, you don't have to sound hurt about it, I wouldn't want to look desperate, just curious. I'm only suggesting this because it happened to me and the guy took like months to realize he wanted a relationship after all. With me. It was too late, but now I know and maybe some other time
I hope this is the case with me too. If not I'll just move on.
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