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Old 05-05-2016, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Without going off topic - men often don't WANT to learn or improve in the bedroom. They had ONE girl (maybe just pretend to) like what they do and therefore ALL women have to like it. Sometimes I think the male ego can't digest that they aren't born as an sexual expert. My experience is that very few men accept corrections or suggestions. It takes a secure and mature guy to be willing to take guidance.
AMEN sister!
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Old 05-05-2016, 08:17 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Stop the faking business. It sounds too much like the movie Sleepless in Seattle.
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Old 05-05-2016, 09:27 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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How could he notice she's not happy when she pretends to be having orgasms? She's sending him messages *ahem* "loud and clear" that she's very happy with what he's doing or not doing. Basically, she's lying to him.

OP, the whole relationship isn't working. He's not the guy for you. There's no way to fix this and the other problem. Apparently he can afford his own place, so you can tell him to leave. Talk to your parents and have them back you up, if necessary. Prolonging this will only be wasting his time and yours. Best to rip the Band-Aid right off.
Yeah that's true

But that's only the ending Ruth how about " during "?, Unless she's screaming YES YES YES all the way through it I'm pretty sure there would be the odd tell tell sign that he might pick up on?

But I suppose if he did notice he would have realised and asked her so it probably is YES YES YES! All the way through! ....... ( lucky sod LOL )
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Old 05-05-2016, 09:56 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Lying about having an orgasm usually a bad idea if you want your love to improve his technique.
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Old 05-06-2016, 04:22 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Stop the faking business. It sounds too much like the movie Sleepless in Seattle.
You mean When Harry Met Sally?
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Old 05-06-2016, 10:29 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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She needs to stop faking the O and giving him the impression that he's getting the job done.
AMEN!

Stop it! The faked O is telling him he's doing everything just fine. You need to tell him you were faking on a few occasions and that he needs to learn to take directions. And YOU need to learn to give them. It's called communication.
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Old 05-06-2016, 10:51 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Save a horse, Ride a Cowboy.....
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Old 05-07-2016, 12:56 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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how about adding wip cream and strawberry syrup just saying in short you can spicy things up or sweet things up too right so.... by the way I fake orgasm ....... oh boy...
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Old 05-07-2016, 03:29 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Save a horse, Ride a Cowboy.....
I thought that was our little secret...... You men you're all the same......

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how about adding wip cream and strawberry syrup just saying in short you can spicy things up or sweet things up too right so.... by the way I fake orgasm ....... oh boy...
Yes I'd offer to pay for breakfast every day then!!!
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Old 05-07-2016, 03:11 PM
 
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Bad sex?=Move on. For me at least.
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