The rea (dating, movies, boyfriends, girlfriends)

[LatinFlavor]

The main reason is that they all want and think they deserve a hot girl. They thinkg they are entitled to one. Unless you are hot yourself and excel in all categories, you dont deserve squat. I blame movies where they make every nerd or ugly guy get the hot girl at the end of movie. Example of movie, out of my league and so many others

Most men, as women, overestimate their looks and attractiveness. Men care a lot about looks which is why many dont have girlfriends or have sex, because they are unwilling to lower their standards, they want the best.

This is why they all go crazy and give compliments and attention to cute girls in social media, as long as you are above average, lots of men will be there

If you are an average man, which are the majority, you can get laid, as long as you lower your standards low enough, since women control sex and dating, you have to lower them even lower than your own looks, not higher

If you are average and expect to get a pretty girl, is never gonna happen, just because uve seen a few cases, doesnt mean is the norm, also, most attractive are already taken, they have been pursued by hundreds of men before

If all you do is go after, of course, you will never have a chance, they all have boyfriends, and even when they are single, they have plenty orbiters waiting for their turn

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by latinflavor

...which is why many dont have girlfriends or have sex, because they are unwilling to lower their standards, they want the best.

lolol

[Mikala43]

Thanks for educating everyone.

[hawaiiancoconut]

Even if youre hoy and excel in all categories, you don't deserve squat.

Originally Posted by LatinFlavor

Men care a lot about looks which is why many dont have girlfriends or have sex, because they are unwilling to lower their standards, they want the best.

I find this to be somewhat true, for both genders, mainly men (porn is to blame).

[LatinFlavor]

Written from phone, but is all true. I know because I have disregarded many women who were into me, simply because their looks did not satisfy me

Is not that men cannot get sex or women, they simply cannot get the ones they want.

[ItsRick24]

This was discussed already, in another thread.

[DontH8Me]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

Even if youre hoy and excel in all categories, you don't deserve squat.



I find this to be somewhat true, for both genders, mainly men (porn is to blame).

Agreed - guys whose only experience with women is watching them acting out sex through a screen has twisted their brains beyond repair.

To the men who state they simply refuse to settle for someone they don't find attractive - those women who you find attractive and worthy of your interest, don't find you attractive. Otherwise, they'd be with you already. Welcome to forever alone, or perhaps let the reality sink in that you are not yourself a porn star so stop ruling out the women who are actually in your 'league' if you want to have an actual lady friend.

For the people with their lofty aspirations and itemized checklist - at least meet or exceed each one of those expectations yourself before you try 'landing' your partner. And I say people, because this phenomenon isn't exclusive to men. I have a female friend who has the most ridiculous, virtually unattainable ideal for her potential partner which is doubly so, considering what she as a person, as a woman, as a partner, has to offer. I seriously believe, at least in her case, that it is a way for someone to insulate themselves from rejection. She has been alone since her fiancé broke up with her over ten years ago.

[hawaiiancoconut]

Originally Posted by LatinFlavor

Written from phone, but is all true. I know because I have disregarded many women who were into me, simply because their looks did not satisfy me

Is not that men cannot get sex or women, they simply cannot get the ones they want.

This isn't braking news.

[BigBadmike]

Originally Posted by LatinFlavor

Written from phone, but is all true. I know because I have disregarded many women who were into me, simply because their looks did not satisfy me

Is not that men cannot get sex or women, they simply cannot get the ones they want.

That's you not most men. However most men don't want over weight women.

[oh-eve]

What's the question here?