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Old 05-14-2016, 08:41 PM
 
Location: Canada
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I have a good friend of mine. He was with his girl friend for 1 year.. But her attidude became very mean with him. After many arguments he left her and went no contact. 1 month later she is in a realtiinship and he shows me that they are already saying i love you to each other.. I think she is in a rebound.. I told him that he needs to forget about her, she is the dumb one who obv cant face her feelings. What do you guys amd girls think?
Hes2 3 she is 22.
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Old 05-14-2016, 08:56 PM
 
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Why do you say she is dumb and "can't face her feelings"? He's the one who dumped her and she naturally and easily found someone else. Meanwhile, he is spying on her and calling it "no contact."

Yeah. She's the dumb one.

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Old 05-14-2016, 10:03 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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If he went no contact a month ago, how is he 'showing' you what she's telling her new beau now? Is he stalking her and her new boyfriend?

Fwiw, a 22 and 23 year old have a lot more dating to get out of their system. Tell your friend to leave her alone, she has moved on and he needs to do the same.
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Old 05-14-2016, 10:24 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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This "friend's" story sounds a lot like yours. How ARE you hearing what your ex is telling the new bf?
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Old 05-15-2016, 06:45 AM
 
Location: Canada
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This "friend's" story sounds a lot like yours. How ARE you hearing what your ex is telling the new bf?
Its not mine.. Mine is done with, WAY DONE WITH. The only thing left I have is my court date than no more. This is actually legit my friends problem.
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Old 05-15-2016, 07:45 AM
 
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Sounds like she's moved on and so should your friend
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Old 05-15-2016, 07:50 AM
 
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This "friend's" story sounds a lot like yours. How ARE you hearing what your ex is telling the new bf?
lol

The dumb one isn't the girl as mentioned above.

She moved on since the [mod cut] friend, stopped contact.

Now apparently he can't move on since he keeps snooping on what she's doing. Next thing you know he's going to contact her.

Some guy's egos just cannot be contained. If they break off with a girl, they want the girl to feel bad about it. They want these girls to beg to come back to them on bended knees. So when they see these girls find another guy quickly, it's a blow to them. They don't like it when they see these girls quickly moving on, as if the previous relationship meant nothing.

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Old 05-15-2016, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Even if she is rebounding, who cares? They are no longer together. Tell your "friend" to get on with his life. You can't get over someone if you continue to allow them rent-free living space in your head.
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Old 05-15-2016, 12:23 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I have a good friend of mine. He was with his girl friend for 1 year.. But her attidude became very mean with him. After many arguments he left her and went no contact. 1 month later she is in a realtiinship and he shows me that they are already saying i love you to each other.. I think she is in a rebound.. I told him that he needs to forget about her, she is the dumb one who obv cant face her feelings. What do you guys amd girls think?
Hes2 3 she is 22.
She clearly wasn't into your friend is much and happier and in love with her new boyfriend

I'm not sure what you mean about her not facing her feelings?, the fact she dumped him and took up with that other bloke and has already told him she loves him strikes me as lady that KNOWS exactly what she wants
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Old 05-15-2016, 03:26 PM
 
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OP, do you understand now that your friend (or whoever) is acting like a moron?
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