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Old 05-15-2016, 08:01 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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So, during the break do you get to fool around, too?
Good question.

It works both ways.
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Old 05-15-2016, 08:14 PM
 
Location: Pacific 🌉 °N, 🌄°W
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Now he has told me that he feels that he wants to settle down but he wants to try other women and proposed that for the next 6 months we take a break so he can be with other women and have more sexual partners then me. he told me he wants to have threesomes and one night stands with 18 and 19 year old girls and basically stick his penis into as many vaginas as possible.
It's hard for me to believe that you are 26. I, as well as my friends were far more emotionally mature at 26 then what your entire post displays.

It's clear that both you and your "boyfriend" lack emotional maturity and emotional intelligence.

If you stay together it will be nothing but pure misery.

Well of course he want's to "try" other women...he told you so himself.

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Old 05-15-2016, 11:19 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Sounds like p*$$y overkill. You've done spoiled him rotten and now he's bored. Maybe w/ the next guy, slow down and maintain a little mystery.. Let him enjoy the chase.
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Old 05-15-2016, 11:31 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Sounds like p*$$y overkill. You've done spoiled him rotten and now he's bored. Maybe w/ the next guy, slow down and maintain a little mystery.. Let him enjoy the chase.
Lol. This guy is young and has yet to experience all the women life has to offer him at his young age. He really has no business settling down, imo.
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Old 05-15-2016, 11:50 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Sounds like p*$$y overkill. You've done spoiled him rotten and now he's bored. Maybe w/ the next guy, slow down and maintain a little mystery.. Let him enjoy the chase.
Just make sure not to over do it to the point where the guy thinks you aren't interested, lol.

Back to the topic, he's clearly jealous that you got to experience sex with different partners, and he didn't.

At the same time, does it matter? If you find that one person you're compatible with in a big way, does it matter if she was your first?
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Old 05-16-2016, 12:34 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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kay I am 26 and so is my boyfriend and I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and everything is great we are both living togther and our fianclially happy, emotional happy with each other, secure with each other and sexually satisfied with each other.

...
Not really.

[i always have a laugh when post start like this]
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Old 05-16-2016, 01:01 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Where's the problem?

He wants to still play around.

You still want to be with him ultimately.

Compromises are an important part of all relationships.

Make it work. Give him a time table, and by end of that time he must commit by marriage.

Easy.
I happen to agree whole-heartedly. Does the OP also get a voluntary hall pass? I hope so.
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Old 05-16-2016, 02:13 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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Now he has told me that he feels that he wants to settle down but he wants to try other women and proposed that for the next 6 months we take a break so he can be with other women and have more sexual partners then me.he told me he wants to have threesomes and one night stands with 18 and 19 year old girls and basically stick his penis into as many vaginas as possible
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But I love him I mean I want to marry him and I want him to be the father of my children. I love waking up next to him and I love him so much he is my man and I don't want to lose him is there any way I can convince him not to be with other women.
can this post even real I mean... What funny...
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Old 05-16-2016, 05:45 AM
 
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If he feels that way, he is going to find more sex, either with you or without you. He wants that experience. Up to you how you deal with it.
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Old 05-16-2016, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Pacific 🌉 °N, 🌄°W
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can this post even real I mean... What funny...
No way the OP is 26. Something seriously wrong in the emotional intelligence department if they are.
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