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Old 07-07-2016, 06:42 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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I agree with the above posts. Unfortunately for me, any approach is a cold approach, because I'm visually impaired and can't read women's signals. It also doesn't help that I don't go to places like bars and clubs where cold approaching is more acceptable.
At the same time, a lot of women have their guard up at those places because of that.
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Old 07-07-2016, 07:05 PM
 
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I agree with the above posts. Unfortunately for me, any approach is a cold approach, because I'm visually impaired and can't read women's signals. It also doesn't help that I don't go to places like bars and clubs where cold approaching is more acceptable.
The majority of guys don't have a lot of luck in bars and clubs because they are not good-looking enough or outgoing enough. Most guys, including you, will have more luck doing things in which you don't have to do a total "cold" approach.
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Old 07-08-2016, 11:51 AM
 
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Not this one I personally don't like women approaching me.
Well you don't have to worry about it that much since women almost never do it so that means you can easily avoid that happening to you
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Old 07-08-2016, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Well you don't have to worry about it that much since women almost never do it so that means you can easily avoid that happening to you
I do consider it a positive because not only will most women not approach a man they're down right militant against it. It allows me to be a man and not have women take that away from me.
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Old 07-08-2016, 12:49 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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It allows me to be a man and not have women take that away from me.
If you were a man no one could take that a way from you, nor would you ever fear them doing so.
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Old 07-08-2016, 12:55 PM
 
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If you were a man no one could take that a way from you, nor would you ever fear them doing so.
This exactly. The more insecure the guy is about his manhood, the more he makes a big deal about something like this.
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Old 07-08-2016, 01:02 PM
 
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I do consider it a positive because not only will most women not approach a man they're down right militant against it. It allows me to be a man and not have women take that away from me.
Why do you think it makes you feel masculine and manly?
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Old 07-08-2016, 01:05 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I know that sounds insecure but I'm not the reason I said that is because my stepfather gave me some old fashioned advice. He told me men go for what they want women won't come to me and if I expected that I'm in for a lonely life. I followed his advice and haven't regretted it.
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Old 07-08-2016, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Why do you think it makes you feel masculine and manly?
It puts me out there and shows women that I exist. Plus, it improves my social skills. Better than sitting around waiting for something that won't happen.
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Old 07-08-2016, 01:20 PM
 
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It puts me out there and shows women that I exist. Plus, it improves my social skills. Better than sitting around waiting for something that won't happen.
yup, life and reality made it out to be that waiting is a feminine thing, whether you like it or not
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