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This is not sex therapy 101, you should discuss your sexual issues with your boyfriend not the entire
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One's intimate *private* life should remain just that and I'm sure your boyfriend appreciates you telling everyone about his *private* sexual release actions.
Oh, come on. Google "Iamscared's boyfriend" and see if you can find him.
See, you stupid porn B*****s what women have to go through? Aww, they dont' care cuz' most are on meth (reality - I know)
I wish to assuage your fears but your guy is just like any other guy who is viewing porn to his heart's delight. Love has nothing to do with it so it's good for you but still he's into whatever he's watching. How much he is doing this without sharing with you IS taking away from your relationship so don't feel bad really because he might not share because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Spoilers: he lied to you
That's more detrimental than the actual porn.
My guess with only what I am able to know about the subject is he did not tell you becuase he was aware of how you felt about it or he was worried about your reaction to an addmission and just didn't want to stir the pot with you.
Time to talk a little further and understand where the other is coming from.
I'm still trying to stop LOLing about "tranny twerking!" Ha!
OP, get over it that guys masturbate. They all do and have been doing it since their teen years. It should have been a red flag that he protested too much about it early on. And guys are into all kinds of porn varieties... there is an internet video out there for literally any type of fetish you could imagine.
Maybe I'm just old fashioned, but believe a dude's masturbation schedule is none of my dang business. Everyone is entitled to a certain degree of privacy, and snooping in someone's phone is just asking for trouble.
"IAMSCARED", I am about to give you the truest statements you will ever hear regarding men (and women too). EVERY HUMAN BEING ON THIS PLANET has two parts to them.........the part they let the world see and the part they keep very private and share with NO ONE. We are all like that, regardless of what people may say. All of us have a deep part of ourselves that we let no one into.
Second fact, most men watch porn and masturbate at times. It has NOTHING to do with you or how much he loves you. You can have the best sex life in the world, and sometimes it is just easier to not involve a partner and get a little quick relief by taking care of your immediate urges. It does not mean ANYTHING about your relationship or how attracted he is to you, he just occasionally has the desire to look at a little stimulating porn and relieve himself.
As for him "lying" to you, he isn't. He just does not feel comfortable sharing the fact that he does look at porn and playing with himself. He is too embarrassed to come out and announce that to you, so he tells you a little fib. That is all it is, not the end of the world.
For some reason, women, in particular, seem to think that "he must not love me or is not turned on by me if he does that." Nothing is further from the truth. I have been in relationships with women I was crazy about, and who were everything I wanted in bed, and every so often I would just turn on the internet and get a little personal satisfaction because it was quick and easy.
You are reading WAY too much into this, and if you think any man will not do the same, you are setting yourself up for failure after failure. There are no Saints out there, only human beings.
Let it go for the sake of your relationship,
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