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You sure are making a lot of assumptions about the OP. Do you really want to believe he is an a**hole because he doesn't want a relationship?
Who said he was an *******? He just seems like the typical male poster who has no success with women because of emotional/mental problems, and IMO should not attempt to date.
Who said he was an *******? He just seems like the typical male poster who has no success with women because of emotional/mental problems, and IMO should not attempt to date.
Or he's just someone who doesn't want to date and just leave it at that.
I'm 25 and never had a girlfriend. Even nothing has ever happened (not even the slightest interest in me from women), I'm not sure I would want anything in case a woman suddenly wanted to be with me.
I've grown to accustomed to my peace, security and comfort and don't think I would have the patience to deal with the drama, the expectations, the fights, the misunderstandings.
I have an active life, do lots of exercise, have a great dog and plenty of hobbies. I also have a very good group of friends, even though it's harder and harder to be with them these days.
For the first time this year I'll have no company to go on holiday because everyone has something planned with girlfriend and boyfriend. But I'm up for the adventure if travelling on my own. Berlin, Budapest, Prague and Vienna are awaiting me.
For a guy like me: shedding blood is a big deal.
So basically, whoever not losing her virginity to me, she is not a big deal.
I think that would apply to me then. I simply don't have the will to make commitments that I know will give me trouble. Not when it comes to my job, though, don't have much of choice there.
If you are so certain that a romantic relationship will only give you "trouble", then what exactly was the point of starting this thread?
Jesus some of you act like someone not wanting to be in a relationship is like them having the plague or something. Leave people alone and let them live how they want. Some people are better off living alone while others prefer being coupled up. Not a big deal tbh.
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Jesus some of you act like someone not wanting to be in a relationship is like them having the plague or something. Leave people alone and let them live how they want. Some people are better off living alone while others prefer being coupled up. Not a big deal tbh.
No one gives a crud if he or anyone else wants to date or not. No one, except possibly their mothers.
That is NOT the issue. The issue is their seeking validation from other for their opinions, and their having screwed up justifications for their positions.
If they just decided not to date and left it at that there wouldn't be any issue whatsoever. People that want to be "left alone" don't post on messages boards or ask questions seeking validation.
No one gives a crud if he or anyone else wants to date or not. No one, except possibly their mothers.
That is NOT the issue. The issue is their seeking validation from other for their opinions, and their having screwed up justifications for their positions.
If they just decided not to date and left it at that there wouldn't be any issue whatsoever. People that want to be "left alone" don't post on messages boards or ask questions seeking validation.
If no one gave a "crud" they wouldn't have responded to this thread
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